When me and my husband first met he confessed to me that he had tried some illeg!
Question:
When me and my husband first met he confessed to me that he had tried some illegal drugs and that he liked?
a few of them but "Not enough to blow my money on that" so I didnt worry. Since we've been married he has asked me occassionally, If I would mind if he bought and used recreationally. Usually the drug of choice was weed, or coke, I had no problem with the weed but I had a big problem with the coke, b/c it is addictive and expensive, it scared me. So when strange amounts of money was withdrawn from our joint account and I talked about a fraud investigation with our bank, he confessed that he was taking up to 8 percocetes a day, almost everyday! I freaked, I know of people who take them occasionally, illeagally, but HE knows and I know that this was an Addiction. So its a big problem but we cant afford to take him out of work, just so we can become horribly in debt to some money grubbing detox center & fall behind on our bills. But I know we cant go on like this, then what should we do? Is there a way to get him clean without cleaning out our bank account? Can I help him do it
Answers:
there is really nothing you can do it has to start with him being ready to kick the habbit. if and when he decides he is ready to quit then the best thing you can do is stand by his side and support him becouse it will be the hardest thing he has ever done . if he chooses he dont want to kick it it is up to you to decide if your are willing to stay married to an addict