How can a person get over feelings of strong emotional desire for a person they !
Question:
How can a person get over feelings of strong emotional desire for a person they can't be with?
I find myself drawn to a woman that I work with quite intently. I love talking to her, and look forward to seeing her each day. I saw a woman from behind that resembled her, and when I mistakenly thought I saw her I realized my heart had literally skipped a beat. I don't know if I've fallen for her but there is an intensity to this emotion that I feel that I can't deny any longer. The problem is that I've learned she's gay, and though I know I wont be able to explore these feelings with her I want to maintain our friendship. Still there is a pain in me for not being able to share this. How can I deal with this?
Answers:
Resolve firmly to stop thinking about her, and limit daily contact, but still be cordial. Go to http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris... on page 2, and use the method for ridding yourself of negative self talk, or thoughts. Start looking elsewhere, ASAP.