Is it wrong to ask a man to not view porn without me (Due to a childhood trauma !


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Is it wrong to ask a man to not view porn without me (Due to a childhood trauma which he knows)?

Something happened while I was about 10 and ever since then porn has not been *okay* for me. I've learned to enjoy it with partners but I get this feeling of betrayal when they watch without me. My current boyfriend knows of this "trauma" and told him that I do not mind him watching it as long as "we" can watch it.
I am of asian race, and a month ago I caught him looking up porn of asian women being beaten and suffocated. Also tied up and humilated. Which worries me.
Because he tells me "every man" does this despite what happened to me. Every man enjoys watching asian women being beaten.

I guess my question is "Am I in the wrong to be upset? Am I in the wrong to expect him to watch it with me and not alone?"


Answers:

I am all for porn but Asian women getting beaten, I don't think that's the norm...at least I hope not.

I think that your boyfriend should accept it and understand if you don't want him to watch it without you.




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