Do you ever just want to give up on everything?!


Question:

Do you ever just want to give up on everything?

I am so burned out and tired of everything and everyone lately. It just seems like nothing positive has happened in my life lately. Usually, I can balance out the negative if someone throws me a bone once in awhile. Unfortuately, this year has been tough and I am dealing with a rocky marriage, unexpected health expenses, my husband's job is in jeopardy. Now the little things are driving me insane, I can't keep the pool from getting green, my kids just keep leaving messes in their wake, every bill I get has SOMETHING wrong with it that I have to spend hours on the phone fixing. I used to brush all this kind of stuff off but now it sends me over the edge. I just don't even know why I get up every day because I know there will just be more crap for me to clean up. I just want to give up. How do I get out of this mindset?


Answers:

You so need to slow down and stop picking up the peices for everyone else. you need to put some time aside for yourself, and try to focus on the things you need. Your marriage will survive if you both want it to, talk to your hubby and discuss how your feeling, you never know he could be feeling the same way? And the kids if there old enough to clean after themselves then make them do it you are not there slave. Living in a home with your family should be a shared thing not for everyone to pile it on to mum. So tell everyone to get there act together as you will stop doing the cleaning,washing and organising everything for the rest of them. Get up and just do something pleasent for yourself. As with the bills discuss this with your hubby you will sort things out and dont worry life is worth getting out of bed for. Just think there are alott more people in the world who are not as fortunate so things are not that bad they just seem it.

Good luck and take care of yourself.

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