Why do I feel this way?!


Question:

Why do I feel this way?

It's not serious like depression or anything but...I'm a girl and I hate it,I hate having hips and i feel like I have all these stupid responsibilites for being a girl
like example:
I went to the hospital yesterday just to get a blood test, they had some nutrientist psychologist guy come in and talk to me about how I feel and stuff and subject of my weight got up and he said "You shouldn't have to be what you see in model magazines, or what stupid boys think" and damn...I felt to strangle him, why'd he judge me like that? How come he thinks just because I lost weight it has to do with "magazines/celebrities" or "boys"? I know it may sound funny but God, I felt to tell him off, I just really hate being a girl...a lot of reason that I don't wanna get into detail, why do I feel like this? Is it just my age? something more? I feel to scream at guys when they look at me and I sometimes punch my hips and cry when I look at them.....why am I like this?

Additional Details

1 month ago
Don't say something rude please, It must sound weird but I can't help it

1 month ago
...Okay streetsomething, how about we go to Harveys and grabe a burger?


Answers:

I think you took him the wrong way. It doesn't sound as if he was judging you. He was just giving you advice. There are many young girls dying of anorexia because they starve themselves because they believe that they have to look like the girls in the magazines. He's right about what stupid boys think. You should be defining you not everybody else. Be happy with yourself even if you feel that you want to lose a few pounds.

Just love the person in the mirror. You have just as much right to be on this planet as the next person. No one should be defining who you are. Don't worry about other people's opinions (expecially hollywood and magazines) on how round or thin you should be. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

It could be that your hormones are kicking in. You were born a girl so there it is. Love yourself. You are special just the way you are and you take care of your health and love life. You are special. Enjoy your youth and plan your future.




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