What is wrong with me?? please help :(?!


Question:

What is wrong with me?? please help :(?

Hi,
I've got this problem.. I could really do with some help as I'd love to change, but I can't seem to...

I'm 18, I've just recently split up with my boyfriend of 3 years as I felt we were holding eachother back from what we wanted to do in our lives.
I now feel really lonely because I have no friends to talk to, or even just meet up with for a chat.
the friends that I do have have changed considerably since we all left school, and I just don't seem to fit in anywhere anymore.
I know I will probably be feeling down about now, but I shouldn't be right now, it's not the fact that I now am without a boyfriend, but it's because I am without anybody.

I want to get out and do stuff, but I have no one to do it with, or even discuss it with...

I have lost all confidence I ever had and I've never felt this low before. I know I need to change, but I just don't know where to start.

Additional Details

1 month ago
an example: if someone is rude to me, or offends me in such a way that it upsets me (alot), I won't say anything to them.. why not? because I'm afraid I'm not important to their life anyway, and they'll just brush me off.. like a piece of c***... I hate the fact that I'm like this, but I just don't know where to start...

1 month ago
ooh also this may also help.. I don't think I'm ugly, I'm happy with the way I look, and the clothes I wear, I will walk out of the house feeling confident in myself, but as soon as I'm put in any situation where I have to talk to someone I become completely different...

1 month ago
EDIT:

Okay, just a couple more things to some questions people are asking.. I'm from the UK, so I left high school at 16, went on to college, all my friends stayed at 6thform in the school, I am just finishing my 3rd year in college, and now going on to do a new course this september before eventually going to university in 2008 (CANNOT WAIT!! I'm hoping this will solve things, but it's sooo far away..) I started up a myspace account, and a facebook account, and have got in touch with all my old friends, but again, I feel awkward meeting them, as they're all different to me now, I feel like they don't want to see me as I'm the only person who ever bothers to contact them, they don't bother with me.

The mall is a different story over here.. you never meet new people there, you just go shopping... life sucks!!! haha xx


Answers:

you have a very long and detailed question... complaints with so many details generally show an anxiety of insufficiency feelings not to be able to tell something completely... in fact you feel that a little..... mentioning lost of confidence... yeah you have not a so strong self confidence these days... you can not decide what you will do, can not concentrate in any
opinion about your future, just for now.... no ideas aiming to catch what you want. i am sure that you have many things that you want to tell but you cant.. you cant because you forget or you don't know what you must tell.. all those are parts of a depression... but it is not impossible to understand severity exactly and also your stress factors may cause that depressive mood... you must see a psychiatrist as soon as possible...




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