Anxiety and lack of confidence?!
Question:
Anxiety and lack of confidence?
I feel lack of confidence and anxiety always. I am afraid to face people or talk in public. I am not getting friends and mostly beocme a joker among people. Is it a disease and can it be cured completely
Answers:
1. U r an individual
2. U r different
3. U have a right to be the way u r
Remember, those who mock at u, or or don't take u seriously, have issues with their own egoes. They r seeking public approval at ur cost. It goes to show it's they who r lacking confidence.
On the other hand, see if u r being to rigid, or too out of trend/fashion. Try to mantain some distance from those u r uncomfortable with, or those who don't value u. U can't forcr some1 to like u; and any way what's the point? How long will such a friendhship last?
Instead search for few but true friends.
If stage-fright is one of the problems--relax! It's very common--in fact, normal. Try to join some elocution/oratory classes. It will surely give a nice shape to ur personality.
Try to be nice with ppl and help those in need or at least show genuine concern. I'm sure some1 will notice ur goodness and appreciate that.
All the best. Bye. TC.