HELP!! What Should I DO????!


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HELP!! What Should I DO????

I am having problems in work, people are victimising me by telling tales to the boss. They are getting new staff to befriend me giving me there mobile and if I contact them, they run to the boss and complain. My boss has said to me not to get involved but it is difficult when they confide in me and ask for advice. I don't know if they are telling tales or is it the old staff.
I am now on an Antidepressant and have never been so low.
My boss is aware of this but it seems to me that he thinks that I am causing my own problems. He does not know all the full story though.
I have always stayed out of the gossip but found that it gets me in more trouble as they think I am backstabbing them.
I feel at my witts end. I am a nice person who is probably to sensitive and my boss has now said she will help me get another job if I want it. Although she is doing this I feel deep down she knows but won't admit it.
I have been so open about my Antidepressants and it seems to be backfiring on me.


Answers:

This is unfortunately a fact of society. If you are open as I am about your need for meds such as anti-depressants you will be treated differently.

And of course despite being adults most co-workers cannot help but, try to make your life miserable at work. You have two choices honestly.

First, you can take up your bosses offer to help you find something else and move on. This time keeping your issue between you and only those at work who need to know due to Dr's Appts. if you know what I mean.

Second, you can just go find another job on your own. You will have to unfortunately keep your meds to yourself if you want to be treated as an equal. And trying harder to ignore the sensitive nature is a good idea too.

I know this is not easy as despite being a man I am the same way all the time.




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