What do you do when you feel completely alone?!


Question:

What do you do when you feel completely alone?

I'm 33 years old and live with my mom and "baby" brother (he's 17 and about to start college here in town. My mom is disabled, and I've helped her over the years. My grandma, who we were all very close to, died suddenly a couple of years ago, and I'm still not over it. I hate my job, I have a lot of health problems, I feel older than I am. I have a lot against me at home in trying to find a way to "improve" myself, but I know I could do it if I really tried. The thing is, even if I did, it doesn't change how I've felt my whole life, which is ALONE. I've had best friends in the past, and I've had close friends, and I've had really sweet friends, but no one who understands me, who would go to the ends of the earth for me (like the hobbits in "Lord of the Rings") or who are there for me when I'm feeling down (like Bridget's friends in "Bridget Jones's Diary", etc,...).No one who wants to listen to me or be there for me or cares how badly I hurt. I can't change that, & it sucks!

Additional Details

1 month ago
First person's answer was MEAN. The others are mostly good and well intended, and a lot of them are right. But none of that stuff will make me have friends other than my family. I CAN'T find a boyfriend or any friends who really care. Even when I was thin and cute, I always felt alone and like I never fit in. I can change myself and my attitude, but the problem is, nothing ever changes around me. I do need to talk to someone, but I'm not sure where to go. I don't know where they have free services in this town.
I hate that people think I'm miserable to be around because I think I'm very loving and caring. I'm always helping other people. And I have a church, but again, I don't fit in anywhere. Thanks for your answers, though.


Answers:

I am so sorry to hear of your pain. I know how that feels too. Have you ever considered going to God and Jesus in prayer? I do and I feel their love. Approach God's throne and ask him to help pull you up out of this rut of depression and loneliness. He will and in time, you will find someone very special will enter your life. This will be the person that you need to make your life whole. Go ahead, and pray with your whole heart and soul. Ask God to comfort you. He will, I promise.




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