I'm a grown woman and im feeling stress is there's a number i can call?!

I'm a grown woman and im feeling stress is there's a number i can call?

Like i said im a grown woman and i'm feeling stress..i know they
have numbers for teens..but this is not my case im a full grown woman..just want to talk to someone on a personal level..who want take the stress im feeling for a joke or make fun of me..life comes with stress and i just have a stressful moment right now
i find nothing funny about this nothing! i'm not freaking out or anything in that matter.Thanks

A crisis line is appropriate. You don't need to be suicidal to call a crisis line. it should be in your phone book.

I get upset a lot because I am bipolar, and here are my stress tips:
From a handout in a class I took:

Identify the stress-is it some life event (like divorce, losing a job, someone dying?) or daily hassles?

Identify your symptoms of stress. Headaches? nausea? shoulder tightness? That way you can nip it in the bud next time.

Prevent stress:
If a situation caused you stress before, prepare for it. Figure out how to avoid it. What I do, is ask for help or start cutting back on what I do, usually both.
schedule meaningful activities-like hobbies, volunteering, art, etc.
schedule time for relaxation-exercise, use a guided imagery tape, meditae, read a novel
Have balance in daily life-too much activity is stressful.
develop a support system-seek out supportive people rather than critical people.
take care of your health-eat well, get enough sleep, exercise, etc.
talk about your feelings or put them in a journal
avoid being hard on yourself. try to be reasonable.

Coping with stress you cannot avoid

talk to others about it.
use relaxation techniques (look at a candle, hot bath, plus what I mentioned above)
use positive self-talk
use humor-watch a comedy, read a funny book
participate in religion (if that applies to you)
exercise
journal
make or listen to music
do or go to see art
play games or do a hobby
Distract yourself with something that keeps your mind busy(but not too hard or you might get frustrated)

My personal tips:

Avoid caffeine like the plague if you are anxious. Caffeine seems to help me if I am more depressed about the problem.

Try meditation tapes like progressive muscle relaxation or guided imagery. They may seem silly at first, but they work!! They help reduce stress, which makes depression worse. I made my own, by getting “The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook” (maybe your library has it?) and reading the imageries into a free program I downloaded, called “Audacity.” I can't stand my own voice, so I digitally altered it with the program so I sound like someone else. You could also get a friend to tape it for you.

Go out with friends, and if you don't have any, find a club to join and MAKE yourself go until you actually look forward to it. Isolation makes everything worse. You don't need to talk about your problems, go have fun!

Exercise at least 1/2 hour a day, and anytime you feel really anxious. Exercise is a great mood stabilizer and cuts down on anxiety a lot.

If your anxiety/stress makes it hard for you to sleep, here are some good "sleep hygeine" tips so you can sleep better. Like go to bed and get up about the same time each day, even weekends. Don't use your bedroom to watch TV and read and use the computer and all that-just use the room as a bedroom normally would be used. Don't do stuff that pumps you up right before bed, like exercising and using the computer. You want to use that last hour to wind down-Take a bath? Make the bedroom really dark, cover up the clock radio, even so the light doesn't shine at you. If you live in the rackety city, use a noise generator (makes wave sounds and the like) or soft music to cover up the city sounds. Avoid caffeine in the afternoon and evening.

Put a lot of colorful things around the house, happy type things, and keep the blinds open and let the sun in. Get yourself some flowers. Put on some nice clothes. Make a list of things that make you happy. Here's some things on my list: A basket full of fluffy kittens, bread fresh from the oven, fireworks popping on a warm summer evening, the first fireflies of the season, the scent of Jergen's cherry almond lotion, the crisp sound of a saltine cracker breaking, fresh sheets on the bed, standing in the boat and flicking a topwater lure out onto the lake at daybreak, etc. Use all your senses and read that list when you are breaking down.
Work on time management if being overwhelmed and late for things and too much to do is getting to you. Cut back on other responsibilities temporarily so you can spend more restorative time with friends and family.

You got a husband/boyfriend? Extra physical touch is very helpful. Most people in the US or UK are touch deprived, so hold hands more, hug more, give shoulder rubs, etc. A pet is good to cuddle with, too, if your home situation allows you to get one. (I'm an animal lover, don't get one if you can't commit to it for 15 years). If you already have a pet, Fluffy or Spot would really love the extra attention.

I hope one or two of the things on this list are a help to you.


Good luck!