My girlfriend died in May, But I still think about the sex we her..?!

My girlfriend died in May, But I still think about the sex we her..?

is this wrong? do i need help

1 month ago
i dont just think about the sex thats not what i was trying to say. I miss her like crazy and think about her all the time, I cant belive she is gone.

WHta i was saying is that sometimes when i think about her i think about intimate things with her and about her. And it scared me at first because i didnt want to think about it . I feel like i can never be with anyone like that again. I dont know.

If you are talking about May 2007, that is only a few weeks ago! I would hope you would be thinking of her.

The *average* healing process for losing someone (death or divorce) is about 24 months. If it takes longer there is noting *wrong* with that - each person has their own schedule of healing.

Death is a life changing happening. That does not mean we cannot become fully functional again and enjoy life, but, it is never the same - just as when a new life comes in to play and a baby is born - life is never the same - mostly in a good way.
Don't expect that everything will get back to being the same.

Things will get back to being ok - but, there will be moments you will think of the person from time to time for the rest of your life.

Going to a support group can be very helpful - you can most likely get through it alone, but, should you have to? You may be able to help someone else in the group and vice versa.

Best wishes on your healing process - no need to rush it.