What should I do?!
Question:
What should I do?
Hi I live with my bitter 60 year old unmarried aunt who I feel is slowly mentally abusing me. She always praises my cousin who is the same age as me because he went to university etc & has his life pretty much on track. I lost my mum when I was 14 & since then had to grow up on my own supporting myself as my father had nothing to do with me. I have met a wonderful girl who has a 4 year old child from a previous relationship & I adore them both & I really want to spend my life with both of them. My aunt then says its none of my business but remember this girl has got baggage which I think u should steer clear of. Whenever my aunt is around I feel anxious & relax when I am with this girl. My aunt has always put me down & always dents my confidence & makes me question my personality, is this right? Thanks! By the way I am 27 & cant really afford a place on my own at this present time
Answers:
Maybe you can rent a place until you can afford your own home? I'm 19 years old and Happily Married, and my hubby and I rent ourselves! it's not that bad, and it actually gives you a chance to save some money for a down payment for a place of your own! If not, is there any way that you can move in with your girlfriend and her daughter? Thats wonderful that you love them both! I think your Aunt is just jealous, and needs to mind her own business. Did you ever try standing up to her? and No, it's not right. sounds to me, like she's trying to brain wash you...try and do what I said any further questions please dont hezatate to email me TrueMetal_Rocker@yahoo.com GOOD LUCK