Is it possible to get use to being hurt?!
Question:
Is it possible to get use to being hurt?
Is it possible for someone to be so use to being in pain emotinally, and haveing others hurt them that when they are not in pain that they feel abnormal, and look for ways to cause themselves pain emotinally just to feel normal again. If so how can they stop this destructive behavior and be content with just being happy.
Answers:
Yes it's possible to get used to being hurt as you describe. Our minds develop different coping mechanisms of various kinds. After we get away from the person causing the pain, it's not uncommon to re-create a pain-causing situation.
The reasons we do this, and ways to change it, are far too complex for Yahoo Answers. You need the help of a professional to get through this and find ways to change.
Best of luck to you.