Will anyone be able to help?!
Question:
Will anyone be able to help?
i am a carer to my mum, i have been since i was 10 and im now 20. I have never had a holiday away from her coz when i have had a holiday she has always been there aswell. i am married but cant afford to move out so am still living with my parents. my mum isnt able to really look after herself and my dad aint any help. i havent had much of a life as its always been around mum. what can i do?
Answers:
You're a good daughter. I have to agree with the others, contact Social Services, they will set her up with a in house nurse that visits once a day and cleans her house and prepares her meals. They will only prepare food for her though. You didn't say what part of the world that you live in. If you live in the U.S., there is a world of help out there to help you take care of her.
You could always turn the back yard into a plant nursery, for an income for yourself. But, you really need some time to yourself so that you can go on holiday.
Thank You for being there to take care of your Mom. But, who's going to take care if YOU?
Get some much needed help, you've done your share, it's time for you to start enjoying your life!!!