I'm thinking of committing suicide...............?!


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I'm thinking of committing suicide...............?

I love my fiance' but for the year we've been together he has been accusing me of cheating, writing down every number I dial, checking the computer behind me to see what websites I go to, and when I was pregnant with our first child, he slapped me and kicked me out the car and drove off screaming out the window the baby wasn't his. I miscarried later that year. He says he loves me but what kind of love is this? What do you think is going on and what should I do? Sometimes I feel like I just want to die.


Answers:

I'm so sorry you are feeling this way, and that you have found yourself in this complicated predicament. I can tell you for sure, that suicide is not the answer. Putting some distance between you and your finace, however, is. I encourage you to insist that either your fiance attend counseling (both marriage/couple counseling AND individual psychotherapy) or end the relationship. Abuse, mistrust, and rage issues will only fester and worsen with time (without treatment).

Before you talk about getting counseling together, however, I really encourage you to seek some supportive treatment for yourself. This is a hard time you're going through, and you need someone who is there FOR YOU and who can help you sort out all these thoughts and feelings. That is the job of a psychologist.

Hang in there,
~M~




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