What are the psychological effects of never having sex?!
Question:
What are the psychological effects of never having sex?
I have not had sex in a very long time. I don't have much luck with women, so it is not an opportunity that presents itself.
It is getting to be unbearable for me. The thought of it consumes me. I'm having trouble sleeping, I've fallen into a deep state of depression, and I honestly don't know how to deal with it.
My question is, what are the long term mental and physical (if any) effects of this? And please, no wiseass comments about prostitutes. It's illegal and unsafe.
I would especially like to hear from people who work in the medical field. Again, serious and articulate responses please.
Answers:
It is the way you are thinking about it that is damaging. Your obessison to have "sex" is what is causing your symptoms. Change the thought and you will change the feeling. It's not what your looking at...it's how your looking at it. I take your attitude personally. We are humans with feelings not objects you use as an outlet for you unbearable wants. People can live and survive just fine without "sex". It will not kill us. Also your attitude is bit scary about prostitutes. Just because a woman isn't a prostitute doesn't make her safe. If I detect desperation in a man it is a "BIG" turn off. I prefer a man who isn't in a hurry and speaks of making love. Good luck