Anyone got tips on how not to be lonely?!
Question:
Anyone got tips on how not to be lonely?
im going to break up with my girlfriend really soon, cos its not working, and i think its the right thing to do. but im going to be really lonely, which sucks. shes the person who i have trusted more than anyone else and shes the one who at least shows that she loves me the most. she gives me what i need. so any tips on how to be lonely? (other than just finding another gf). how can you function without feeling loved?
thank you
Answers:
Experienced this for the vast majority of my life. Basically just keep doing stuff, invent projects for yourself, exercise lots, masturbate plenty, find an interesting job that you have to think about. Currently I'm spending loads of time in the garden planting things, watering lawn: just don't focus on being by yourself. Appreciate your friends more: I have other chefs, waiters and waitresses, my housemate, my local Big Issue Vendor and my contacts on here forming my support network, also my family. I will admit that in my 20s I spent a lot of time in brothels but this is addictive behaviour that will run away with all your cash and leave you just as lonely a day or two later. Primarily you need to realise that you are loved by the rest of the human race, generally speaking, and if you are meant to be with someone then it will happen. In the meantime, live live to the full and enjoy yourself as best you can.