What Does It Mean If Your Face and Eyes Light Up?!
Question: when you really like a guy? I know of course it means you like him, but why can't I force my body not to like the guy--I mean my reaction--it's obvious. Your thoughts.
Answers: when you really like a guy? I know of course it means you like him, but why can't I force my body not to like the guy--I mean my reaction--it's obvious. Your thoughts.
Sorry, I know I'm not a man, but if this isn't psychological/ emotional/ mental thing, then it's purely physical. Your body finds the guy attractive even though you may think he's a jerk.
Or...
There's the obvious scenario where a girl wants a boy she can't have or hopes she can change because he's a "rebel", which is why she's attracted to him.
It could be that, even though he's an a*shole, he's incredibly good looking. You might just be physically attracted to him. It doesn't mean you have to like him as a person.
Another reason could be pheromones. You can't smell them because they have no scent, but they are detected through the nose. In many cases people either are very attracted to each other and don't know why or hate each other and don't know why because of pheromones.
In your case, your body is just reacting to the possibility of getting close to that guy. And when your eyes light up for him, you probably have a stupid grin on your face that gives it away.
Your options are to either hook up with him and risk rumors, gossip, drama, heartbreak, etc. Not to hook up and enjoy physically; think of him as eye candy, maybe flirt with him, but never do anything. (I've found that flirting with a guy works best if you don't actually like him.) You can avoid him altogether. These are NOT your only options, so don't limit yourself.
What you're feeling is absolutely normal and the sooner you realize that the more relieved you will be. For now, just enjoy the feeling and listen to your gut.
P.S. If his initials are E.V. or C.H., stay away from him. He's not worth your time.
Chemistry, pure and simple.
Try not to think about it. Then keep yourself doing other stuff around him. And it's alright if you laugh with a lot, as long as he's not doing it back, when for whatever reason, you don't want him to, LOL....