Men and marriage?!
Question: I am in my 40's, long time divorced, with a teenager son. I want to get married, I have a long time boyfriend, who never married his ex girlfriend, but had two kids with her, and she left him after 15 yrs, and got married. People say he is a commitment phobe..will never commit. I am begining to wonder. I have a man whom I have had a long distance relationship with, who DOES want to marry. But this would mean leaving America. What would you do? Stick around the one who won't comit, or go for it, and marry the one abroad, who really wants to marry?
Answers: I am in my 40's, long time divorced, with a teenager son. I want to get married, I have a long time boyfriend, who never married his ex girlfriend, but had two kids with her, and she left him after 15 yrs, and got married. People say he is a commitment phobe..will never commit. I am begining to wonder. I have a man whom I have had a long distance relationship with, who DOES want to marry. But this would mean leaving America. What would you do? Stick around the one who won't comit, or go for it, and marry the one abroad, who really wants to marry?
for some instances, not all men didn't want to commit unless they will find a woman they think the right one for them. you have to make ratings between them, if you choose the one who doesn't want to marry what will it be? maybe that man loves to CHEAT or playful with girls thats why he dont want to marry to be always free. if you choose the other who wants to marry it maybe okay at least both of you become legal. wish you a good luck.. be careful with your decision..
You should be with the one you love, not the one who will marry you. Marriage is just a piece of paper if there isn't feeling behind it.
well first of all, from what you tell me you are not sure if your "close to you" boyfriend does in actuallity have a commitment issue, i would say to give your "close to you" boyfriend a chance, maybe he will want to commit with you, and well i dont know about the whole moving out from america thing... good luck!