Sex question guys only please?!
Question: guys, i do not want a bunch of perverted answers but only serious and helpful ones please!!
What are any tips you may have for improving sex (both for him and for me).. we are both new at this and need all the help we can get.
you can also feel free to email or im me.
Answers: guys, i do not want a bunch of perverted answers but only serious and helpful ones please!!
What are any tips you may have for improving sex (both for him and for me).. we are both new at this and need all the help we can get.
you can also feel free to email or im me.
Well first off im 21 years old and I have been with 4 different girls. Im currently in a relationship with a girl I have been with for about a year now. We have sex maybe twice a week sometimes and along the way I have learned a lot. First off.... the key to good sex is finding positions that suit the both of you. Me and my gf done it with her on top for a while but later found out she likes me on top, so I do it to please her. You have to practice around with positions to see what you like best. One of the biggest things about sex is if its going in and out easily. Go to Wal Mart and pick up some Astroglide from the Condom section. Dont use a whole lot, its designed to moisten the vagina. Just use enough to get it to where intercourse is very easy. I dont know if you use condoms or not but me and my gf dont. Its better if you dont but safer if you do. We take the chance and thankfully havent paid the price yet. I know for the guy its twice as better. Another great thing is both being naked. COMPLETELY. Having your pants to your knees, and underwear still on is plain retarted. Skin to skin makes it better and it feels great! Last but not least, go somewhere very private. My gf is in college and still lives at home and her bedroom is far away from her parents room but she doesnt want to get too loud incase her parents actually do hear or wake up all of a sudden. Its better when you can just moan, squeak the bed, and make noises when your having sex. Oh yea, one more thing. Dont just jump into sex, make out, touch, foreplay and all that stuff is great. Dont miss out on it. Hope ive been a big help.
life is a journey.
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just do what comes to mind
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wait until you're married...the sex is so much better when it is with your husband/wife!
Communication is key. You must both be open and tell each other which things you like and which things you don't. If you try something and it's the best thing you've ever felt, tell him, or he'll never know. Same thing goes if it's something you don't like.
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be on top, stick out ur chest, and make him feel CUMfertable.
also you should try smokin some dank, it would make both of you feel much better
Role playing...(cowboy/saloon girl is one I've had success with in the past)
Sexy outfits...taking the clothes off real slowly...better setting...better lighting...some people really like "mirrors" so they can sea themselves...more attention to foreplay...the women needs more time than the guy to "get up there," and time it so both climax together...which again...means more foreplay...
Sometimes even a different room can make all the difference...or being outside...or whatever...when you first start out...nobody is an "expert..." It takes some practice and experimentation, so...
Be patient...it will get better...but that takes an effort....especially a "restraining & control" effort on his part.
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First, know the risks, the pros and cons, your partner, etc... Basically know what you're getting into first.
If you've rationally decided it's what you want to do, then:
I've always found that sex is MUCH better when there's an actual loving connection from a committed relationship. Friends with benefits and random hookups aren't nearly as satisfying.
The most important thing you can do to improve it is communicate openly and honestly. Express to eachother what feels good, what you want more of, what you don't like. Don't be inhibited, relax, enjoy it, don't worry about doing it right, and just instruct eachother.
There are many nutritional helps that I can give you. You also need to find out from each other what the other one likes and provide this.
It is important to keep your libidos up and the American diet is counter productive in this regard. High carbs, low fat, no red meat is disastrous. In fact, sex hormones are steroid hormones made from cholesterol that is made in the liver. These statin drugs used to lower cholesterol wreak havoc on the production of sex hormones and is one of the so called "side effects" of taking them. You need good cholesterol production and minimize stress. When your body goes into a stress mode, the liver reprioritizes and stops producing the sex hormones and causes a lot of cortisol to be made. It also stops cleaning up old estrogen in this mode.
Sugar, caffeine, white flour, hydrogenated oils, are all bad for the sex hormone production. Additionally, eliminate ALL soy products, except for soy sauce and miso that are fermented like the Japanese people eat.
Tofu is a super NO, NO. It was developed to stop the monk's libido's and it definitely does that. Also soy contains lots of phytoestrogens that greatly inhibit the man's body to produce testosterone.
Eliminate ALL vegetable oils from your diet! All soybean, canola, cottonseed, and corn oils are very unstable polyunsaturated fats that are typically rancid when you buy them from the store due to the light altering of the oil shining through the clear containers, and when you heat these oils, ever so slightly, they convert from the "cis" configuration to the "trans" configuration creating trans fats that combine free radicals that stop and even create hardening of the arteries.
Eat lots of olive oil, wild fish, flax oil, walnut oil, palm oil, coconut oils. Also eat a lot of beef from grass fed cows, not the commercial beef you get in local stores that are angus beef fed in commercial feed lots with grain.
You can also improve your circulation of extremities with natural herbs and by doing this greatly improve the functions of the sex organs in both male and female. Go to: www.healthline.cc (not .com) and order: Circuzyme. This is a wonderful product that contains lots of very natural, fresh, grade 10 herbs that will greatly improve your circulation. Take about 4 to 6 of these per day.
good luck
watch dirty movies together....just giggle and relax...make alot of eye contact, things will soon heat up. just practice making out, go as far as u can before u do the deed then stop. do that a few times till u both cant wait to go all the way. let it come naturally. sometimes it helps to go away on a trip to a totally new place, u both will feel like an "us against the world" feeling and be more eager to bond. good luck.
One of the best things about sex is that it gets better with age. Why wait? Dont.....it gets better because the inhibitions are gone...you explore more, take risks, try more new things and pretty much not be held back by your fears.
good luck
not to ruin any thing or nothing but my and my girl once brought in a nother pro-girl and pro-guy just do see how it felt and to lurn about differint things
Really guys if you can't keep it down think blizzards and icebergs ! Give the poor girl a chance she does want to learn and how many of your wives and girlfriends care at all { or you about them for that matter as long as you get your rocks off } Sunshine the best advice I can give is take your time and pay attention if you care about each other and it sounds like you do don't be in such a hurry ! You should have opened this question up to older women as well though . Main thing other than what I have already said is to be a little adventurous and see what you both like play together in other words . If I can help with any other questions feel free to email or IM me good luck and pay no attention to the prevs and swine you have a lucky guy there tell him I said so .
talk about it with him
tell him what u like and what pleasures u
and also let him tell u what help him get into it
comunication is keyy
Oral sex for 15-20 minutes warm up is a must. At the beginning stage, try apply some baby oil onto both private parts.
Hi,
Sexual intercourse is not merely a physical act with your partner. It is important that both of you are ready for it and enjoy it for fulfilment. It is, therefore, necessary that the mood be right and both partners be adequately aroused sexually. Arousal can be heightened by foreplay, which is an important part of intercourse.
In foreplay, the partners fondle and kiss each other, and stroke each other's genitals. This increases the sexual urges and also lubricates the sex organs to facilitate a pain-free intercourse. As a result of the sexual arousal during foreplay, the man