Nervous and having sex?!
Question: Ok, Im 22. Im not bragging but ive been with like 20-23 different girls. I met this girl about a week ago and shes really cute, nice body, cute face, smart, like basicly perfict. The other day it was my day off and i was laying on the couch and she came over, got on top of me and started feeling ******* threw my pants, i got really nervous and my hands were shaking a little and my heart was racing. Ive NEVER been like this around a girl sense i was like 14, What do you thinks wrong? The last time i had sex was about 2 weeks ago.
Answers: Ok, Im 22. Im not bragging but ive been with like 20-23 different girls. I met this girl about a week ago and shes really cute, nice body, cute face, smart, like basicly perfict. The other day it was my day off and i was laying on the couch and she came over, got on top of me and started feeling ******* threw my pants, i got really nervous and my hands were shaking a little and my heart was racing. Ive NEVER been like this around a girl sense i was like 14, What do you thinks wrong? The last time i had sex was about 2 weeks ago.
Simple. U may like her and see her PAST just having sex. There's nothing wrong. It happens. Also, LOL!!! w some guys, their penis reacts along w their minds, so u may fall into that category. No need to worry, there's nothing wrong. Just enjoy the moment w her, stop thinking, and let wutever thats happening happen.
lack of foreplay, you p***y
I think you actually care for her as oppossed to those 20plus women you have been with. Please get tested for all STD's, if you care for this girl, don't give her something....
your in love, you dont want to mess up with a woman you really like
could u be ...GAYYY!!!...OR INSECURE BECAUSE SHE'S HOT?
IDK , maybe you enjoyed the experience.
you just got to pull it out and just do it do it
sounds like a personal problem buddy!
I wouldn't worry about it, you probably just weren't expecting it, or for whatever reason it triggered the same emotions you felt when you were 14, it might of been she looked the same or whatever. Or it may be, because you feel something more than just lust for her, maybe. I wouldn't worry about it either way, talk to your doctor if it happens again, though. Best of luck.
Being with that many girls at 22 is certainly nothing to brag about.
That's just nasty...
Maybe something is wrong with her or are you in real love
its your mind not wanting to spread an std to the sexy girl.
You probably really like her. The first time my husband and I got intimate he had a hard time keeping "it" up because he was so nervous. He had had sex before but he said that it was different because he really liked me. Maybe this is the same situation you are in. You are nervous because you really like this girl.
All of the other girls you were just banging. You have real feelings for this girl and for once you are not in controll.
This is what is scareing you. You have met a girl who is treating you they way you have been treating all of the others.
She will eat you alive.
It's okay...this stuff happens. You probably are just nervous because you really like this girl, and are afraid of disappointing her sexually. Just take your time with her, and try not to worry about it...she sounds like a good girl. The reason it didn't happen with the other girls is because you weren't as into them, and less fear of rejection.
WOW! umm, Maybe you just like her looks, and not thinking about anything else, and your concious is telling you to break up w/ her. Just a guess, don't try till your sure
You really like this girl and you may even end up asking her to marry you do it
You've finally found the perfect woman.
Maybe she means more to you than the other girls have. It could be performance anxiety. It's pretty common among young men at one point or another, actually, but most young men don't talk about it. Maybe you're worried about disappointing her since you think she's so perfect and you don't want to lose her. You might be anxious that if you don't do well in bed that she'll leave you. That's a common cause of it.
The best advice is to relax, but it's probably easier said than done since she's clearly so important to you. Just rest assured that if she's really that wonderful and thinks you are, too, then you have nothing to worry about and can relax. Once you relax, things will be fine. As you said, the same thing happened when you were 14. It's pretty common.
I agree with MARINE WIFE.. my husband and I had the exact same situation the first time around. Just try not to let yourself over think it before your with her next time... and NO you don't need to see a Dr.... the people who suggested that you see one, do.
That's because you're not ready to HAVE SEX yet.
I know as a teenager most of us boys can get horny fast
but not as a MAN you know. You are now a man so act like a man and tell you're girlfriend that you're not ready to have sex with her yet. Real sex needs love and once you feel very in LOVE with your girlfriend then it's time to be a real man so express those feelings to her. You need to time to think of what kind of feelings to you feel towards her?
If you think you're half way to ready then you can just do it on the bathtub first and please her. I know you won't really get any ejaculations yet but it's a good practice before doing it the real way.
It sounds like you feel this way because you like her and you got the jitters. It is normal to get like this around some people expecally if you like her very much.
I think it's kinda like.. you"care" for her more, if you will, than the other ones.
Please, if u do feel the urge to have sex, please please please use protection!
hehehe maybe you finally found the one that makes u nervous ;)))) Congratulations! ;) You really like her and you have a fear not to get something wrong with her (or not to satisfy her the way she would want....unconsciously u worry about ur performance....and that causes nervous adrenalin to pump, together with the adrenalin that forms just because of the excitement.....so u get all shaky, heart bumping etc.
Just relax, concentrate on her.....not on yourself....and give in ;)
You will have fun as you really like her.....who knows maybe after 23 girls you finally fall in love ;)))