Advice! My guy wants me to be "rougher" in the bedroom. Tips?!
Question: The other night I was with my boyfriend and while we were having sex he commented that he liked it a little rougher, like nails and biting and stuff. Previously I've just like nibbled on his earlobes etc. and when I kiss his neck sometimes i run my teeth along the spot I'm kissing. I really like him and want sex to be enjoyable for both of us so I was just wondering for ideas from a guys perspective (guys who like it rougher) of what feels good and from a girls perspective as to what they usually do. I really have no idea as to how I can be rougher with him. Thanks guys! Constructive feedback is muchly appreciated.
Answers: The other night I was with my boyfriend and while we were having sex he commented that he liked it a little rougher, like nails and biting and stuff. Previously I've just like nibbled on his earlobes etc. and when I kiss his neck sometimes i run my teeth along the spot I'm kissing. I really like him and want sex to be enjoyable for both of us so I was just wondering for ideas from a guys perspective (guys who like it rougher) of what feels good and from a girls perspective as to what they usually do. I really have no idea as to how I can be rougher with him. Thanks guys! Constructive feedback is muchly appreciated.
Just make sure you are comfortable with it. I had a b/f like that liked rough sex and while i was fine with that now and then there were a few occasions where he just took it too far and i didnt enjoy it. best hint i can give you is if he likes what you do just now then just do the same but rougher then more than likely you will become more inventive as your confidence grows
b*tch slap him and pull his hair, then bend his penis while putting it in. and also dont forget to bite it while ur sucking on it.
Try a little scratching on the chest, or some delicate scratching on the balls. That'll drive him wild. No teeth on the penis though, that can be a tad uncomfortable, though feel free to scratch his sides and his back and rear for roughness. Maybe try biting his nipples too? That may be a bit too rough, as they are sensitive, but some might find it erotic. Try it once, not too hard, to see how he likes it. Overall, just be delicate with the penis and balls, but the rest is free game.
Getting a belt across my butt or a frying pan-and the belt buckle felt on my vagina.
Besides being more inventive in future you could try to intensify whatever you have been doing eg nibble harder, scratch harder, bite harder.
BITE OFF HIS DICK... HE WUD LOVE IT
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guys are going to want it rougher cause then they get hornier and *** faster. But if u are uncomfortable with it i wouldnt do it. If u are comfortable then try to do a bit of biting.