I ejaculate fast now when having sex...?!
Question: im 16 and ive had sex with my girlfriend around 10 times. the first 9 times were great and lasted from 15 to 30mins.. but now i tried it again the other day and we lasted a couple minutes.. i dont understand how i could do that. i felt embarassed and told her i wasnt in the mood
i think this happened because i masturbated as fast as i could before she came over and had sex. ever since this incident ive been ejaculating fast.. does anyone know whats wrong with me? or how i can prevent this? is this normal?
thank you in advance for the answers. this is not a joke. and im afraid my relationship wont be the same if i dont fix this
Answers: im 16 and ive had sex with my girlfriend around 10 times. the first 9 times were great and lasted from 15 to 30mins.. but now i tried it again the other day and we lasted a couple minutes.. i dont understand how i could do that. i felt embarassed and told her i wasnt in the mood
i think this happened because i masturbated as fast as i could before she came over and had sex. ever since this incident ive been ejaculating fast.. does anyone know whats wrong with me? or how i can prevent this? is this normal?
thank you in advance for the answers. this is not a joke. and im afraid my relationship wont be the same if i dont fix this
"love to dance" summed it up pretty well here.
You have got to learn something that took me a few years to learn myself. You need to realize that not every time you have sex that it will last a very long time. Some days you will feel like a champ and last as long as you want, and some days you are going to feel like a "2 pump chump". Dont get upset or embarrased when this happens! You dont have any medical issues since you lasted long the first 9 times. Also, you didnt screw yourself up doing anything the last time.
I am 24 years old and I have been having sex for awhile now. The first few times I only lasted a few minutes, then I got really good and could last as long as I wanted. But in the many years of doing it, there have been numerous times that I came in the matter of minutes or even seconds. You just have to laugh it off and tell your girlfriend that she turned you on too much. If your girl gets upset about it, then she is not a good girl to be with. Girls are lucky that their equipment doesnt turn off when they get off. I know my girlfriend has gotten off a few times right when I put it in. Do I laugh at her when she gets off fast? No!
Another thing, by freaking out about this, you are making the situation much much worse! When you get all nervous for sex, your "flight or fight" sympathetic nervous system overpowers your parasympathetic nervous system. This will cause you to ejaculate faster than normal. Remember, its your nerves that hold back ejaculation. If your nerves are all fired up before hand, you can bet they will jump the gun and make you ejaculate.
In conclusion, settle down and shrug it off! All men have to deal with an occasional premature ejaculation! Also, if you are having sex, dont masturbate! Too much sex will deplete your nervous system's energy that holds back your ejaculation. Alot of men have permenent premature ejaculation becasue they have jacked off too much in the past and their nervous systems are fatigued.
perv.
im sure she can understand the circumstances. even make it a complement to her and just say it was bcuase how good she was, or something like that.
also, get thicker condoms. you wont feel it as much, so it'll take you longer.
When masterbating, take it slow and easy. Going fast trains your equipment to get off fast, and as you now know, not a good thing. Next time it happens though, don't consider sex over, just the first round. Keep on pleasuring her, and in a few minutes you will be back in action anyway. Good luck.
I'm surprised. I mean usually if you masturbate prior to having sex, it should take longer for you to ejaculate again so soon. My guess is that you were so turned on by the magazine, video or whatever you were thinking of when you jerked off you were still horny. There are times when guys just orgasm quicker then we want to. I think it was just one of those times. Nothings wrong and I wouldn't be concerned. It doesn't sound like a medical problem if that's what you're thinking.
ur tooo young to be having sex. u'll get an STD
Its a mental thing. Practice the art of masturbating but don't ejaculate. This should help your stamina.
But don't all young guys ejaculate quick???