Male prostate stimulation during sex....?!
Question: During sex, I inserted a finger into my partner's anus because he seemed to like the attention. I had never done it before but he seemed to like the other stimulation I was giving. So I went for it thinking that if he didn't want me to do it, he would stop me. I asked if it felt good and he said yes. So, any advice? Does it feel better to a man for the finger to go in an out or to be left in and massage the wall of the prostate? I am interested in knowing so as to make it as good of an experience as I can for my partner.
Also, if he didn't want me to do this, he would have said so....right?? Right???
Answers: During sex, I inserted a finger into my partner's anus because he seemed to like the attention. I had never done it before but he seemed to like the other stimulation I was giving. So I went for it thinking that if he didn't want me to do it, he would stop me. I asked if it felt good and he said yes. So, any advice? Does it feel better to a man for the finger to go in an out or to be left in and massage the wall of the prostate? I am interested in knowing so as to make it as good of an experience as I can for my partner.
Also, if he didn't want me to do this, he would have said so....right?? Right???
I completely agree with Newbie. I enjoy having my prostate massaged. and I don't mind the thrusting action, either. It adds much more pleasure to sex, especially orgasm and ejaculation. If he doesn't enjoy it, you should tell you; if he hasn't said anything against it he probably enjoys it.
Most of my male friends either love it or hate it. Those who love it give the same reasons as I gave; those who hat eit think it's "a little gay". There is nothing gay about having the prostate massaged. It is a fantasitc sexual experience that adds a new dimension to a man's sexual repertoire.
An added benefit is that it apparently helps promote good prostate health. I've heard that it hekps prevent enlarged prostate and possibly cancer. How exactly it achieves both' i don't know and I don't really care. I enjoy it because it feels great!
It depends on the individual. I prefer keeping it in place and massaging, but would never complain about thrusting! Congrats to you and your guy for trying something new. Maybe after awhile you try toys also...keep it interesting!
I think guys do enjoy it but many are embarrassed to admit it. One guy I dated loved to be tongued down there. I only did it if he took a shower right before.
you want to be sure to wash after that.
left in and massage definitly