The male Gspot?!
Question: My boyfriend wants me to work his, but Im very nervous to try that! Im usually very open minded and we have a really great sex life...
But...
How am I going to do this?
I dont know how it works or what to do!
Answers: My boyfriend wants me to work his, but Im very nervous to try that! Im usually very open minded and we have a really great sex life...
But...
How am I going to do this?
I dont know how it works or what to do!
Go ahead - people are washable. Wearing a surgical glove might reduce the yuk factor for you.
And, if you really don't want to do it, don't. A gentleman won't force the issue. Invite him to do it for himself, and you can pay attention to the other parts of his body.
Your b/f can explain about male Gspot and hoow to do it.
the male G-Spot is a naked chick and a beer/pizza:)
The male g-spot is the prostate gland. It is accessed rectally. You can just put a finger in there, since he wants you to, and let his response be your guide. He will know when you find it, and you likely will know as well from his reaction.
The male G spot is the prostate. To stimulate the male G you have to insert your finger(s) into his anus to get to this spot.
Trim your nails, use lots of lubrication, insert two fingers inside him about two inches, feel GENTLY towards the front until you feel a swelling about the size of a walnut. Gently massage this and listen to your boyfriend--he will let you know what feels pleasurable and if you've hit the right spot.
You can sure as hell bet he'll let you know if you've hit the wrong spot.
just do what everybody else has been saying. you insert your fingers into his anus and feel around. make sure he is clean or you both might get turned off. i understand why he wants you to do this. it is very enjoyable. my girlfriend has done this to me before. i love it! have fun with him!
What this generally refers to is the prostate gland. You know how when you are having a gyn exam the doc will put a finger in your rectum and give your clit a little pull, the reflex causes the anus to contract. Male have the same reflex and these muscles are wired into sexual response too. Then about an inch or so inside the anus in the up the body direction you will be able to feel a walnut sized lump. Also there is some access possible from the external prostate spot. Until the male is hard erect and has been so for a while there may not be a lot of fluid which increases sensitivity as ejaculation gets clse. Massaging the prostate as the ejaculation starts can increase intensity and length. Too hard a massage can be injurous. Latex or nitrile gloves can protect tender tissues from rough skin, sharp nails, and keeps ones finger clean. At the drug store you can also find packages of finger cots that look like little condoms, finger size condoms. A dozen might cost $1.29.
Get an anal probe for him! Will drive him nuts! Perhaps you should just get a strap-on and do him!