How do i get self confidence quick?!
Question: hi iam conor for about the past 3 years i have had little or no self confidence.can some one tell me how to get it please
Answers: hi iam conor for about the past 3 years i have had little or no self confidence.can some one tell me how to get it please
Hi Conor. First self-confidence is like skill acquisition. When you learn something new, it takes time to adjust to the new skill (like skateboarding.)
So I recommend that you set reasonable sights. Don't expect to be self confident in trigonometry, if you just started studying algebra. But do find areas where you feel a sense of expertise and then trust your feelings and thoughts.
Given you're a teenager, it's typical that you want people to view you as competent and confident. Hell, who is at 15? So don't give yourself any extra pressure; just be yourself, and know that you are discovering yourself. There is a period of awkwardness for all of us when we begin new journeys, and you are in the passageway to adulthood, so don't knock yourself when you are less than perfect or feel vulnerable.
Now here's a tip: women actually admire men who acknowledge their vulnerability. Why do they go crazy for all those actors? Because actors to be successful have to show the vulnerability of the character. Vulnerability is the actor's gold. So learn when it's ok to show it, and when it's best saved for the few people you feel closest to.
If I had one word to sum it up: be authentic. For me life is a long exploration of what it means to be authentic. Tell me how it goes for you!
Also, to increase your confidence, you will need to double check spelling and the order of numbers etc. I know it seems like a hassle, but we all have areas where we need to focus more attention, and people will perceive you as more confident when you take the time to proof read your writing and (probably) your arthimetic and math. Happy Holidays and stay warm in the cold North!
never doubt yourself and don't be afraid to make mistakes! :)
Everyone makes mistakes, do them learn from them and move on.
IM me if you want some more help :)
Pretend? i have no self confodence either. . if you want it quick.. like to inpress a girl.. i say just pretend.
i think your sexy ;)