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Question: I'm 17 years old and last night something happened.
Last night I went to club with my boyfriend (19 years old) and then when we went home to his house, he pressured me for sex & I didn't want to and then I walked home. He said I was the worst girlfriend and now he dumped me. Maybe if I did have sex with him everything will be better. I feel like a little kid who is to scared to have sex. I wasn't ready for sex. Now I lost my boyfriend and the my world seem to fall apart. Please help! I feel like I done something wrong or that...


Answers: I'm 17 years old and last night something happened.
Last night I went to club with my boyfriend (19 years old) and then when we went home to his house, he pressured me for sex & I didn't want to and then I walked home. He said I was the worst girlfriend and now he dumped me. Maybe if I did have sex with him everything will be better. I feel like a little kid who is to scared to have sex. I wasn't ready for sex. Now I lost my boyfriend and the my world seem to fall apart. Please help! I feel like I done something wrong or that...

no u didnt u actually did the best thing ever if he realli cared for u and liked u he would have waited til u were ready and dont worry someone who doesnt care about u and doesnt care about ur morals doesnt deserve u i was lucky to have found someone that was willing to wait for me and u will find someone too..just wait dont be in a rush he just said that to see if u would change ur mind and its good that u didnt because sex is a very big change and u need to be physically and emotionally ready
u did the right thing

He's an A-hole and you did the right thing. And good riddence Report It


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  • You don't need him; He dumped you because you wouldn't have sex! You don't need someone one like that. He obviously doesn't respect you and what you want. You need someone who will first care about you and your feelings! Don't worry about him; you take care of you, and you watch, some really awesome guy will come your way, and this OLD boyfriend of yours will wish he still had you. Best wishes for you Ms. And hang tight, you'll see.

    You have not done anything wrong. If he cannot accept ur decision to wait, then he is an a$$hole. Dont let it get to u hun.

    Your world is not falling apart. So you don't have that creep as a boyfriend now............that's not your world falling apart; there are far worse things that will cause that to happen. He is a creep. And if he dumped you, so be it. You made the totally right decisions. If you're not ready, you're not ready. And if sex was the 'deal breaker' of that relationship, then it really wasn't a relationship to begin with. So, move on. There are nice guys out there who will like you for you, and not pressure you for sex.

    ARE U KIDDING ME? ur only 17.....if u guys were to have sex....and then somehow you ended up being pregnant....then what happens? he walks away and u get a BIG responsibility at a very young age....KUDOS TO U HONEY TO DO THE RIGHT THING.....ANY MAN WHO TELLS U TO HAVE SEX OR TAKE A HIKE CAN GO TAKE A HIKE HIMSELF.....let it go...it'll hurt a while but u'll turn out to be an excellent,responsible and mature women....and in time....u'll get a guy who's just like you!

    You know that you done the right thing by not doing something that you were not ready for. Sex complicates things. There is risks of pregnancy and STD's every time you have sex. He is the one in the wrong here. You need to go one with your life like he does not exist.

    Too bad there are not more girls with their act together like you-you did the right thing, and he just showed you what he is all about. Good riddance. Find a guy that will treat you with respect instead of just wanting to use you for sex.

    what a c*nt, but, if your ready for sex, give me a call ;)

    if he dumped you for sex then hes just a piece of **** and you dont need him. he's a jerk. now whats with you being in a club underage????

    first of all ure boyfriend sounds like a real but dont let anyone i mean anyone make u do something u dont want to because its really bad because u will end up regretting it so take care of ure body its ure temple

    GOOD FOR YOU! im glad you didnt let him push you to "doing it" when you weren't ready. just tell your parents that it just didnt work about between you too. you'll find someone really good for you. ;) -good luck!





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