Do guys actually like BOSSY GIRLS and the girl he always has to CHASE??? in a re!
Question: although i am single at the moment, i worry that guys are turned off by girls who, once in a relationship, don't push the guy away etc and actually fall for the guy.
does a girl always have to be "on the run" or be a "tease"???
do some guys like a girl who, once dating him, cooks him dinner, dresses up for him, is super nice and fun etc. but isn't always pushing him away and is proud to be his girl???
or do guys always want to keep recatching the girl?
also, i know this is kinda dumb but umXD
i noticed that lots of guys are married to bossy girls who are always telling the guy what to do and yelling at him.
do guys actually like this?
what if the girl doesn't yell or boss him around? is she then "too easy"?
thanks and i hope i get some great answers=D><
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Answers: although i am single at the moment, i worry that guys are turned off by girls who, once in a relationship, don't push the guy away etc and actually fall for the guy.
does a girl always have to be "on the run" or be a "tease"???
do some guys like a girl who, once dating him, cooks him dinner, dresses up for him, is super nice and fun etc. but isn't always pushing him away and is proud to be his girl???
or do guys always want to keep recatching the girl?
also, i know this is kinda dumb but umXD
i noticed that lots of guys are married to bossy girls who are always telling the guy what to do and yelling at him.
do guys actually like this?
what if the girl doesn't yell or boss him around? is she then "too easy"?
thanks and i hope i get some great answers=D><
bye!!!
Guys do like a little challenge thats why most guys like to chase the girl and being a tease can help if you like the guy and he has noticed you. Although some guys might like to chase you before your in the relationship but once your in they really dont want to do that cause then that can destroy the relationship. Now there are guys who want everything to come to them those are the ones that usually want to be in charge.
Yeah there are guys that like girls who are bossy because fo rone they know they won't be dependent on them and respect themselves. Yes there are guys that like a girl who cooks dinner for him cause the way to get to a mans heart is through his stomach "lol" true though, a girl who dresses up for him is a really good thing, who is super nice yes but don't do it to much because then they might get sick of it, a girl whose fun is always good because guys love fun and if your fun and find a guy who is serious and puts you down leave him and find someone else, and a majority of guys usually don't like the girl pushing them away and if they do they will leave and find someone else usually or if they think they run the place they will keep coming back but that really depends on the ralationship and the personality of the person and when the girl is proud to be his girl he feels real good about himself even if its just for props. Some guys actually like recatching the girls.
Some guys who have a bossy girl usually know that she will leave them if she looks good and they don't want to loose her so they take it, some don't care, and other do like it. If the girl doesn't yell or boss him around the guys like that but be careful because depending on the guy they will take control and mess with the girl and boss her around and yell at her and put her down that she thinks she can't leave. No she's not too easy just makes her more vunerable to be taken advantage of so have a little bossy side to don't let the guy have it all, but then remember other guys can't handle bossy girls just all depends on the guy.
This all my opinion. I have more to say about this so if you want to add me go ahead and i'll tell you more because I've had experience with some of this and i got and older cousin who really has shown me a lot. Hopefully this answers your questions.
no. We are lazy. We dont want to have to run around chasing. We want cheetos. We want assorted beverages.
GOOD QUESTION!! im dying to see some answers too!! i wish i had thought if this one....
ill be checking in to see what people sayy..
It depends if the guy is patient enough or if he has enough time.
i'll answer the "bossy" part. I'm a bossy girlfriend, while my bf is a absolutely mellow. I think we even each other out, it's like ying and yang.... He misses that "intensity" in his personality, therefore I complete him by bringing it to the table... While i'm always fired up, he mellows me out w/ his easy going personality.... i hope it makes sense :-)
Guys want two things in a relationship.....a trophy girl, and sex.
Dont make us chase, men are willing to pay a little extra at the local street corner to get the sex.....for the trophy, a man will carry his budwieser around...
Making a man chase is a bad idea unless you want failure.
Me and my boyfriiend and have an amazing relationship and I do everything for him. I've extremely caring and like you said I cook for him, i dress up for him I even help him out with a lot of his school work.
he says I'm the best girlfriend he's ever had and he just asked me to move in with him. =)
I think the good guys that are worth your time will appreciate everything you do for them.
well my gf bosses me around and i actually find it hott...but i dont want to like have her freaking out at me or yelling i just like it when she bosses me around a lot of guys that i hang out with are like that too...but i also dont want to like go running after her and stuff thats just dumb..but i love it when she like bosses me around and tells me wut to do..i find it hott
All guys are different. There is no way to know. Just like all girls are different. Just imagine how different you are in a relationship and which guys that you like compared to your friends, relatives, sister, etc. You just might notice these bossy girlfriends more because they stand out in your memory, you probably know just as many non-bossy girlfriends... either that or you know a lot of VERY laid back guys who need their girls to give them a little push.
whatever you want from a man in very similair to what a man wants from you. If you want a man who chases after you than most likely your man would like you to chase after him, etc.... it makes them feel important
i can only speak for myself but im not much of a chaser type or whatever.
i really can't tell if girls try to like do that chase thing or whatever it is. so i just like i dunno...dun think about it anymore.
if i really really like a person i want to get to know her.
not waste time doing little games and what not. ya know?
no, i don't like bossy girls, or girls teasing me
that's a big turn off
"do some guys like a girl who, once dating him, cooks him dinner, dresses up for him, is super nice and fun etc. but isn't always pushing him away and is proud to be his girl???"
ooh i would love that girl
"married to bossy girls who are always telling the guy what to do and yelling at him."
i would divorce her is she yells ar me and react this way. I will divorce such women who manipulate you and make you fell like an idiot. Nobody has the right to be bossy, either in marriage or outside of marriage.
if we dig you heaps and your cheeky, then we will chase but if your rude and arrogant then its a turn off, more than likely walk away.