I think this is sex question, but I'd like advice from mature people (if tha!
Question: I've heard of guys with pre-mature ejaculation problems... or stamina issues.... but not boredum?
I have found that, after being with very attractive girls, that I get bored. And I've tried different positions, "kinky" stuff.....etc.
I've never had a stamina problem... or a pre-mature one either, just I get bored and I lose my attention span. Is it just I go to long or is it that I have a differnet problem???
Answers: I've heard of guys with pre-mature ejaculation problems... or stamina issues.... but not boredum?
I have found that, after being with very attractive girls, that I get bored. And I've tried different positions, "kinky" stuff.....etc.
I've never had a stamina problem... or a pre-mature one either, just I get bored and I lose my attention span. Is it just I go to long or is it that I have a differnet problem???
I think you are desensitized. You need to stop being sexual early in your relationships. The tension created by abstinence is the true definition of sexiness. If you don't exercise any moral restraint, it's no wonder half of America can't get hard and the other half is frigid.
whats the question?
at the moment you are thrill driven...that means sex is all about the thrill of exploring new things and new lovers. not a very good way to be if you ever intend on a long running relationship. i think you'll find relationships require you to make a leap. instead of being focused on what you do, or the exploring, you become focused on sharing. if you can ever achieve real intimacy you'll understand more what i am saying. it is hard to put into words, but sex becomes more about being together in the closest possible way and less about the thrill d'jour. hope you find that. it is a different type of sex, but it is very deep and rewarding.
YOU JUST LOOK AT SEX AS PHYSICAL ACT. WHEN YOU FIND SOMEONE YOU CONNECT WITH MORE YOU WILL LOOK AT IT DIFFERENTLY.
You are going through a sexuality change. Accept the fact that you like men, not women.
Poor thing... I think you just need to find a girl who you can love and share the extacy of sex with you. I think if you find such a woman than you'll find that sex is more than physical desire. It may take time, and waiting for sex makes it more pleasurable and in the end you will be able to apreciate her more for her, and not her body.
Peace!
Do you get bored with other matters in life easily? If so, then this is but part of a larger problem.
Having sex is often called 'making love' but it isn't. There can be sex without love, but sex with love is far from boring because there is an added dimension, an intensity, a joyfulness in sharing and wanting the best for the one you love.