12 year old son question?!
Question: I have a son who has been doing his bed. He humps it and sperm comes out. I've been spying on him these days. He is going to get circumsized next summer. Is it okay? Will he be okay?
Answers: I have a son who has been doing his bed. He humps it and sperm comes out. I've been spying on him these days. He is going to get circumsized next summer. Is it okay? Will he be okay?
You should let him have his privacy and let him hump and whatever else in private.
As for circumcision, there is quite an argument about it now days, and a lot of people are against it. I would do a lot of research on the subject and also include him in on the research and the making of the decision.. He is still young, but getting him cut at 12 without his informed consent would be wrong. Also, why are you having it done at the age of 12 instead of when he was an infant ? Also, if you are wondering about whether it is ok and if he will be ok, it is obvious that you have not asked the doctor enough questions.
he is going to be fine.
Are you serious? I hesitate to answer these questions for fear of looking like a fool. Anyhow, sure it's fine. Not the usual way of masturbating, but fine nonetheless. Don't worry about him.
Umm I'm not sure how ok he'll be when he gets circumsized... having never done that myself, i've heard it's quite painful. Did you not think of this when he was born?
Different but let him do his thing!! Dad!!
He's growing up...he'll be fine.
There are good reasons to get circumcised, but why isn't it already done?
Getting off any way one can is normal for his age. He'll outgrow it. Most guys do.
Hope that helps.
ouch getting circumsized when he's 12 thats gunna suck. leave him uncut to spare the pain.
dat a boy!!
that is a natural thing to do.... i mean he is 12 . and it is wrongful for you to spy on him...i mean what if he was spying on you having sex or something like that. i myself am 16 and i remember my 12 year old days and i use to do that....its normal. and i recommend that you talk to your son about getting "cut" people say that after getting circumcised that there penis is more irritated because its protective covering "the foreskin" was removed
....weird...I think that you should at least give your son some privacy...jeez...:P
Really? he is just getting circumsized? why wasnt he circumsized at birth?
I dont really know if he'll be okay...
sounds gross I hope he washes his own covers.
anyway....sounds normal to me. He is home, no one is pregnant, and YOU should not be preverted by watching your own child.
Circumsized at 13? WHY. That is going to hurt like hell. Don't do that to him. Leave him alone to GROW up.
idk? he is probably masturbating
wow man, i never mastubrated untill when i was 16...
i wonder what an active son u should have......well it's not kind of nice for a father to know details about his mastubrating son..u gotta tell him he should do it in a place like washroom or something. i do it very cautiously..so i think no one knows if have ever done it... lol
about his health don't worry there is nothing to be worried about.....
while there's nothing unusual about him humping his bed, there are other methods he can learn to get some pleasure from his penis. Why not review some of them with him so he knows it is fine to masturbate.
now there is something unusual about you spying on him. Not that seeing him masturbate or hump the bed is wrong, more that observing his practices on multiple occasions isn't really normal.
And then there's the pending circumcision. Why?
Are you trying to prevent him from masturbating? If so, I can tel you that doesn't work at all' most of my circumcised friends do ti way more than I do.
Is it so he will look like you? If so, how often do the two of you get naked together and observe each other's penises?
Is it to help him keep clean? If so, what's wrong with soap and water and taking a daily shower. And of course retracting to clean under the foreskin.
Is it to prevent STD's? Do you really think that works? I doubt it. Only abstinence prevents STD's and condoms reduce the risk if one must be sexually active. But removing the vast array of sensitive nerve endings in the foreskin won;t.
Is it for religious reasons? If so, I won;t argue the point except to say he is not yet old enough to make those lifelong decisions so let him explore more about religion and decide for himself if he wants yours and the required circumcision. He can always have it done when he is old enough.
Is it so he will fit in with the other guys in locker rooms and th elike? If so, you might be intertested to knwo that the majority of men in the world are not circumcised. So even though a lot may be in yrou area, once he ventures away for college or career, he may well find he is in th eminority. Even in th eUSE the rate of circumcision is dropping quickly so he may well not even fit in in yrou area once he is circumcised.
I suspect you need to revisit the reasons for it and consider whether he is your property to do with as you please or if he is a person with rights who should be allowed to make the decision on non-medically necessary surgery for himself once he is an adult.
sound normal to me
hes fine, & about getting him circumsized, a friend of mine did this to his newborn & the kid was unable to walk for almost a year!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
everyone humps their bed, i do too. that doesnt mean he should get a circ though, i got one when i was 15 and i regret every second of it. my skin on my head is dry and cracked, it hurts to have an erection, and i hate myself for doing it. dont make him hate you for a decision you made.
He is fine. Also, that's kinda creepy that you are spying on him. Possibly illegal. Also, unless it's for a medical reason, which I doubt because it's not very soon, make sure he is ok with being circumcised. He probably won't be able to do that to his bed anymore once it's done.
If you have experienced the difference of having foreskin and then having it removed you would not be asking this question. It makes a big difference after circumcising. The head looses a lot of it's sensitivity.
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Yeah, it's normal for your son to do this at his age. Boys start at different ages.
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Man, why are you spying on your son masturbating. This is his own private time for himself. Leave his alone before he catches you and never trust you again.
You man be able to talk to him about masturbation if HE brings it up and has questsion. If not Leave It Alone.
just think of all the crazy sh*t you did when you were 12
dude ur a dad u should give ur son some privacy talk to him about puberty if ur that ancious