Please help?? regarding my physical appearance!!?!
Question: I'm 19. my problem is that my chest looks like women's breasts. my friends mocks at me n i feel ashamed.
Whether going 2 gym n shaping it up will help??
Answers: I'm 19. my problem is that my chest looks like women's breasts. my friends mocks at me n i feel ashamed.
Whether going 2 gym n shaping it up will help??
Well, I kinda know how you feel, You can try the gym, but if you're inclined to be this way, it probably ain't go'n away that quick. Everybody, or most guys, get teased about "something" in a group of friends students or co-workers. They should'nt....but they do.
An older guy told me once,....don't wory about the teasing,...guys just do "that". If they ignore you all-together......"THEN"...you've got a problem.
I listened unbelieving. Then tried ignoring it and even made a few remarks myself. Sometimes when they said things, I said "thanks"_______...you're nice too"! When it no longer had the desired effect they wanted,....they pretty - much quit. To others I would say, "thanks" ______ ...how very kind of you to say that! These reverse- psychology remarks work well in most cases and make them feel guilty for their cruelty. HUMOUR is ALWAYS your BEST weapon ! One or 2 guys kept it up. The one guy, had a prominant facial feature and kept harrassing me. I said "guys", what sticks out more my titts....or his nose. They all laughed like HELL........he quit. The other guy had big ears. When he said something I said, "ya'....almost as big as your.....EARS! They all laughed....he quit too. There are many other come-backs you can use so get a few. Like,... (pretending suprise) "thank-you" ______ for pointing that out I've never noticed "THAT" before......then LAUGH about it.. Then "THEY" feel embarrased or like a FOOL. You just get a few good zingers to turn it around on "THEM".
Anything......like "THANKS"....you're "SOooo KIND.....or,
"GEE"....that's the nicest thing anybody's said to me ALL DAY,....everybody laughs. When a guys says "nice titts, or they're bigger than my girl friends,...just say,...gee guys,...now he's got me worried, do you think it's safe, for ME to bend over in front of him? Now who's the joke on?The others all laugh at "HIM" now and "HE" feels cruel and guilty. Always be smiling, and look good natured (never mean) when you answer back. Act like it doesn't bother you, even tho we know it does.
Always have a COME-BACK LINE!
You take back the "CONTROL" of the situation away from "THEM"
Every good comedian has put-down lines for hecklers
Then you'll be known, and popular,.. for your good-natured sense of humour.
You know,...FAKE IT,.. TILL 'YA MAKE IT,... kinda thing!
It's "ALL" in how you handle it!
TRY IT....and good luck BUDDY
going to the gym should help
I've got that slightly. "Man boobs". I've read on the internet that being active in the gym and dieting will help this go away!
(I haven't done that b/c I'm pretty lazy =-p)
Good luck!