How do you know if you will be good at sex?!
Question: I am 15 years old (and 6 months) and I have never had sex before (not worried bout that at all, none of my friends have). I masterbate quite often, at least once every 2 days. When I masterbate, I ejaculate quickly (1 min), I was wondering if this has anything to do with premature ejaculation? Am I gonna be good at sex or is there no way to know?
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Answers: I am 15 years old (and 6 months) and I have never had sex before (not worried bout that at all, none of my friends have). I masterbate quite often, at least once every 2 days. When I masterbate, I ejaculate quickly (1 min), I was wondering if this has anything to do with premature ejaculation? Am I gonna be good at sex or is there no way to know?
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gotta be honest with you: 1 minute while jerking is pretty quick! I used to be able to 10 or fifteen minutes or more when doing it. Here's one inherent problem with masturbation: in order to "not get caught" most guys make themselves pop quickly. And to some extent, that does carry over in to sex. Now, I gotta be honest here: my first time having sex didn't last even five seconds. The next time lasted maybe 30 seconds. Then a minute, then five, then ten, and then I could go as long as I needed to. Your first time will be great, but then again, it may not be. You won't know until you have the experience. You might want to drain the vein a little more often; I used to go at least twice a day, if not three or four. You might find you can go a little longer that way.
For a teenager one minute is about average to reach ejaculation through masturbation.
Most sexual knowledge comes through experience. Some of that experience can be vicarious (such as through reading about it or porn) but predictions about your future ability are not appropriate.
It can't be predicted. Make sure you get ONE SINGLE partner who you will stay with for the rest of your natural lives. One who won't leave you if your penis is too small, or if you can't use it.
You don't,
Masturbation is not a good indicator of anything, as it is a bit more intense and more direct.
when the time comes, you will have to do a bit of "on the job" training
The quick orgasms that you are having are no indicator of your future sexual performance. If you worried about "coming too quickly" you might think about trying some self stimulation that gives you enjoyment BUT stop or slow down before you have an orgasm. This may help to train your response to be a bit more in YOUR control.
Sexual performance is a learned skill and has much to do with attitude combined with practice. The fact that you are able to post here with a question speaks well to your willingness to learn and improve. So the chances are that if you are interested in being good at sex, you'll do what it takes to learn how that works.
Masturbation and sex are very different things.
The only effect it has on your sex life is that you learn more about your own body which can help in a "knowing what you like" kind of way.
The only way to be good at sex...is to find a compatible partner and have a lot if.
Relax. You'll be OK.
It's normal for teenagers and many men of all ages...after your first ejaculation, if you can obtain a second erection in a short period of time, you will last longer the second time and in turn please your partner.
It takes women longer to get aroused than guys...a lot of foreplay (kissing, touching and tasting) will heighten sexual pleasure for both partners.
To last longer, before sexual intercourse, many guys masterbate a couple hours before meeting with their partner.
you dont. If you are a avirgin you probly wont be...
Practice makes perfect dear.
Practice makes perfect. Do you honestly expect you first time to be your best. You should try to postpone your orgasm,but that is difficult for a teenager. I wouldnt worry about it.