Help with prem ejac?!


Question: Hi all

Im in early twenties and lately been having a real problem with prem ejac, often losin control within just a couple of minutes. The longest has only been about 5 minutes. Its not through being selfish, i always make my partner orgasm through oral, and she seems more than happy with that. I however am obviously really embarassed about it and want it sorted. Ive tried all the self-help techniques, such as stop and start etc but they are of no use. I've heard anti depressants might help, should i consult a dr? Would be extremely grateful if anyone has any experience of my problems and/or suggestions

thanks


Answers: Hi all

Im in early twenties and lately been having a real problem with prem ejac, often losin control within just a couple of minutes. The longest has only been about 5 minutes. Its not through being selfish, i always make my partner orgasm through oral, and she seems more than happy with that. I however am obviously really embarassed about it and want it sorted. Ive tried all the self-help techniques, such as stop and start etc but they are of no use. I've heard anti depressants might help, should i consult a dr? Would be extremely grateful if anyone has any experience of my problems and/or suggestions

thanks

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give the suggestions a go it might help you, but they need a bit of perseverance, don't resort to pills, you're a young man, and they could actually make you lose your sex drive, no interest in sex...........now that would be depressing

if your partner is not too worried by this do it together, make it fun,

good luck

have you heard about 'pc' muscles? they're what control your flow of urine... if you can learn to flex them on your own or learn to get more control over them (through 'flexing') it should help... look up PC muscles on google... it might give you a bunch of girly stuff... but somewhere in there ought to be something about guy's muscles too

There are other strands on here that I have seen asking the same question more or less.

In the interim, you may want to book an appt with your GP to make sure your equipment doesnt need a tune up, and until then, I understand that there are creams, etc that might help to numb you for an added 10-15 mins. Take a look into it in the pharmacy isles.

PS... Anti-deps are nothing you wanna F with. I've never heard of using them for pre-jack, but it will throw your brain chems off and so really you would only be trading one trouble for another. There's better solutions out there.

Im a woman, so cant really help in some aspects, but to be honest it sounds like you are just enjoying what you are doing a little too much, slow down, and dont do as much oral sex it obviously makes you very very excited, dont stimulate yourself, take it slow, wear a condom or 2 sex isnt always about the amount of penatable sex its about the experiences you share as a couple dont put pressure on yourself it will make things worse, get your partner to excite herself for a while see if that helps, and try to relax a breathe and think about something that grosses you out when you feel the urge explain it to your partner and take the pressure away the more you do it the better it and easier it should get

Please email to me.

give it time all will sort its self out in time don't listen to the losers

The very best solution is to masturbate an hour or so before you plan to have sex.

Try zinc tablets....Zinc is very good for spermatoza, testosterone and erection lasting...it is the best mineral for a guy to take





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