What can I do to help my boyfriend?!
Question: My boyfriend and I have had a great sexual relationship, but recently, we've had some problems. He has trouble keeping his erection. I don't know what to do, and it hurts him because he thinks that he can't please me anymore. We're good for about 10 minutes, then things just quit. I think he has ED, and so does he, but he doesn't want to go to a doctor about this.
What should I do?
Answers: My boyfriend and I have had a great sexual relationship, but recently, we've had some problems. He has trouble keeping his erection. I don't know what to do, and it hurts him because he thinks that he can't please me anymore. We're good for about 10 minutes, then things just quit. I think he has ED, and so does he, but he doesn't want to go to a doctor about this.
What should I do?
before considering it ED, you should try different things. sex is about spontinuity. do something different and sexy. traditional is fine but spice it up. there is no rule against that. that should do the trick.
KY warming gel is just amazing.
put some music in the background, massage eachother and make it as intimate as you can. I never had that problem but I am sure it is not you.
his problem is merely psychological
Cialis.
See a doctor.
go buy some vickies secret. do some forplay. if not, get a new boyfriend who can keep it up, dump this loser.
See a doctor.
anxiety, depression, hormonal changes, fear of not performing 'right'. Most of this is normal for any male. send him to an Urologist for a check up (penis, prostrate, hormones, testicles).
Some foods also affect this, especially health foods like Tofu, which interferes with testosterone in males.
Hmm, very sensitive, and I can relate to your boyfriend's concern... It may be ED, and he should see a doc. It is embarrassing and no guy would ever want to have ED, but it may be what it is. Not going to the doc in my case cost my marriage, but to me, marriage is not all about sex, after ten years and 3 children... or so I thought...
My advice, tell him to see a doc, even though embarrassing. Viagra or Cialis probably helps. It did for me, but it was too late, and sadly, I have no use for those pills as of yet.
Good luck to him, I understand his anxiety...
Sometimes a guy loses his erection due to tiredness/smoking, drinking etc, then it plays on his mind that he couldn't continue and the problem gets worse as he loses his confidence, if he won't go to the doctor you could try a **** ring or some of those elastic hair ties, pop a couple of those around the base of his penis (not too tight) just firm enough that they will entrap the blood from his erection and prevent it from subsiding, he should be able to perform as long as needed and once he has build his confidence by telling him how great it was etc, pretty soon he won;t need thosehair ties as he will have regained his confidence
hope this helps
paul
His only choice might be to see a doctor. I would try to get him to go. If he goes now he might be able to correct this before it gets worse....or permanent!
If he has stress at work or elsewhere and or depression, that will take the tiger out of his tank. For bothmales and females, Sex is often a question of mind over matter. He may need to talk to someone about it and it has nothing to do with you.
Hopefully he can still give you some nice Cunnilingus when he's out of action and a nice backrub afterwards and a few cuddles later.
Get some breast implants, you are obviously not turning him on anymore.