Is it abnormal to have fluctuating sexual stamina?!
Question: I'm 23, I'm in good shape, But sometimes I feel like I have problems when having sex with my GF.
Some days I can go for a really long time (over an hour) and other days I try to control myself, can't and the 1st round only lasts 5-10 minutes. When this happens we usually fool around for a few minutes and I'm ready to go again, and the 2nd round usually lasts a rediculously long time...I can barely ever finish a 2nd time cuz it takes so long and we usually get worn out.
She is happy either way cuz whether we go for 1 long round or 2 rounds she always orgasms and she always tells me I'm great at what I do, but whenever I have one of those short 1st rounds it makes me feel so inadequate. I feel like I'm abnormal or there is something wrong with me. Am I overthinking this?
Answers: I'm 23, I'm in good shape, But sometimes I feel like I have problems when having sex with my GF.
Some days I can go for a really long time (over an hour) and other days I try to control myself, can't and the 1st round only lasts 5-10 minutes. When this happens we usually fool around for a few minutes and I'm ready to go again, and the 2nd round usually lasts a rediculously long time...I can barely ever finish a 2nd time cuz it takes so long and we usually get worn out.
She is happy either way cuz whether we go for 1 long round or 2 rounds she always orgasms and she always tells me I'm great at what I do, but whenever I have one of those short 1st rounds it makes me feel so inadequate. I feel like I'm abnormal or there is something wrong with me. Am I overthinking this?
You're totally over thinking it. If your girl is cool than you have no problem . The frequency of sex could greatly determine your endurance . This is a nothin to worry about.
You don't live close to Grand Rapids do you. By close I mean 5 to 6 hundred miles?
I can drive.
I think you are overthinking it. Just relax and enjoy it whatever happens :-)
A lot of things can affect you stamina...diet, excercise, stress..etc.
What I would do is start taking notes of what goes on before those days when things are short and see if you can make improvements....
Another thing is that it could be the position...when i place a girls legs in front of me and then close them while i am inside of her it makes it sooo much tighter and bust faster.
You ARE overthinking. It's relatively normal.
Next time, just stop for a second before you"go" and wait until the urge passes.... then continue. It takes practice, though.