Using me for sex?!


Question: im 14. my boyfriend invided me round to his place this saturday when his parents are out (all weekend) he asked me to stay the night with him. he said "we should try it"..i know what that means!!! should i bring some condoms??? where do i get them from? should i even go?


Answers: im 14. my boyfriend invided me round to his place this saturday when his parents are out (all weekend) he asked me to stay the night with him. he said "we should try it"..i know what that means!!! should i bring some condoms??? where do i get them from? should i even go?

im the same age as you and i would never even think about goin if he had said that to me. im waiting till im ready and with someone i love and i know love me.

DONT GO. if you feel he loves you, and you would be ready to possibly come out pregnant from it, then go and satisfy him. if not tell him how you feel, and if he loves you then he will understand.

The first two words of your description should answer your question.

No you should not go. Condoms do NOT protect you 100% from pregnancy. Give your virginity to someone who will love and care for you for YOUR WHOLE LIFE, not to someone who "just wants to try it".

doesnt sound like u are in love. it sounds like he wants his first experience and wants to use u for it.i say wait. its not something u'd want to happen with someone u dont truly love-the first time. its painful and awkward, and sometimes u bleed a little. wait til u love someone so all the other stuff doesnt matter so much

Rainy is absolutely rite...your not gona be happy a few years down the track when you look back at what you did believe me.

yeah it sounds like hes using you for sex.
wait till its with someone you actually love and care about.
and with someone who actually loves you. its so much
better and way more meaningful..
plus TRUST ME you WILL regret it!!!
and he will most likely tell everybody what happend if you go

guys always want sex. what it comes down to is do you? you should never do anything for someone else. if you do something, do it because it is what you want for you. if the other person really loves you, they want you to be happy and to feel good about what you have done. someone that loves you would never push you to do anything you didnt want to do. look inside, and if this is something you want and you are ready to take the leap of faith and assume the risks, then do it for you. remember there are always risks. even condoms are not foolproof. you have to be mature enough that if something happens and you get pregnant you can deal with that. guys are quick to jump in there, but few are mature enough to actually consider the risks and to think 'what if'. thats when you come away pregnant, raising a kid on your own with no father to help.

i'm thinking 'try it' doesn't mean his new pokeman diamond... show this dude the door. You could get pregnant, and screw up your life. And, you didn't say how old he is, but he's too young to be a dad. There is no 100% way to not get pregnant except to wait for love, and hey, maybe even marriage.

sad but true. if you give him a taste of the fruit, he will only want more and may not be necessarily with you ?

ant you a little young?





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