Why does he ejaculate so fast?!
Question: my husband is 30 and we have aactive sex life but he orgasims much to quickly- even if we go one round and then go again it happens quickly again- with the exception of maybe 5 minutes longer.
he has had lots of experience so i know its not cause he isnt used to that feeling-
he last usually anywhere from 1 to 15 minutes
im 21 and healthy and its hard for me to climax under these conditions..... i have tried everything please help!
Answers: my husband is 30 and we have aactive sex life but he orgasims much to quickly- even if we go one round and then go again it happens quickly again- with the exception of maybe 5 minutes longer.
he has had lots of experience so i know its not cause he isnt used to that feeling-
he last usually anywhere from 1 to 15 minutes
im 21 and healthy and its hard for me to climax under these conditions..... i have tried everything please help!
1) you should both be responsible for your own satisfaction and that of your partners... SO...
have him jerffok before you guys get together and you start on your own equipment so that you're turned on and purring before you get together for the main gusto...
if that still doesn't work..
he either likes sex with you very very much ..so much that he gets over excited to the point that he climaxes too fast.. OR..
try changing positions, cuz I know from experience that if I'm on top of my wife and we are doing it "cat-style" I will pop within a minute... otherwise I'm good to go for a while.
OR
it may be the angle of trajectory that really stimulates his penis so (and this goes with the position comment I made earlier) you may want to slightly change your current position... so if you're in missionary, try doing it on your couch with your back resting on one of the armrests and have him grinde downwards so that he feels his balls rubbing/being tickled by the couch cushion...
all else fails, look into desensitizing lotions cuz if he is too turned on, it has got to (i'm guessing) your awesome looks.
Goodluck
use foreplay too your advantage.....jake him off and then have sex...he will last longer
Wow, usually the second round is golden for me... anyways, tell him to jack off before hand maybe so instead of it being the first and second round it's more like the second and third. Hopefully that should make it last an acceptable amount of time.
He's enjoying it too much! hahahaha
umm thats what i think, im not 100% sure but im pretty sure
Does he climax with intercourse? Or before?
If it's with, just make sure that you climax before he moves to intercourse.
Most women (upwards of 65%) don't climax easily with only intercourse, but need direct clitoral stimulation of some kind.
He could always give you oral,hand play,etc when he comes early. Also try a C0ck ring
Make foreplay all about you. Since he is definitely going to get his in, don't do anything for him and just have him stimulate you. During sex, have him stop when he feels his orgasm coming on. Have him wait until the feeling passes, then continue. He can practice this when he masturbates as well. Hopefully he can train himself to last longer that way.
Mmm...after all those answers and your replies, think a sex therapist would be the last resort.
Looks like he's really into you i.e. you turn him on one heck of a lot. You must be hot stuff!
In 85% of me who ejaculate too quickly the cause is an underdeveloped PC muscle...
These exercises will help...
http://www.traction-works.com/links/peni...
this is easy, just dont let him fu*ck you until he eats it and makes you cu*m. then give him some puzzy. OR, find a GUY on the side who has some control, I can give you my number...and a money back guarantee
tell him to wear 2 condoms
or
you can also try delay spray but make sure after 2 minutes of spraying and before insertion, he must wash otherwise it will desensitize you too. Dont worry, even after washing, it works!