Sex question!?!
Question: im a freshman in high school and there are really hot girls everywhere and i really wanna have my first time with my girlfriend but she wont give it up and if i dont lose it this year i will die and i have had many sex oppurtunitys at partys and stuff but she is a long time girlfriend andits not like im gonna cheat on her i love her but i really want it and i dont wanna break up with her for something like sex.all my friends have done it and they tell me to do it with a girl at a party and not tell my girlfriend but it just feels wrong!but i hear it feels soo right!!advice please!!
Answers: im a freshman in high school and there are really hot girls everywhere and i really wanna have my first time with my girlfriend but she wont give it up and if i dont lose it this year i will die and i have had many sex oppurtunitys at partys and stuff but she is a long time girlfriend andits not like im gonna cheat on her i love her but i really want it and i dont wanna break up with her for something like sex.all my friends have done it and they tell me to do it with a girl at a party and not tell my girlfriend but it just feels wrong!but i hear it feels soo right!!advice please!!
You may not like my answer, but if you look at having sex with your girlfriend that you say you love as she "won't give it up" then you are only interested in sex as a physical act. Sex is not intended to just be a physical act. If you wait for the right person and the right time, you will benefit emotionally. If your girlfriend isn't ready and you force the issue, you are thinking of yourself and not her. Also, you're a freshman in high school. You aren't ready for the responsibilities that go with having sex with anyone. Sex is also an emotional act for males, but they don't realize that until after they have had sex. Also, are you ready to be a dad? Anytime you have sex, a girl can get pregant even with birth control. Ask yourself if this is what you would want for you and her. Also, you won't die. You need to talk with some mature, adult men and not your so-called "friends." I'm sure they are friends, but they are giving you wrong, bad advice. If you still feel the same way as what you wrote, break up with your girlfriend. She isn't ready. If you really care about her, drop the subject with her. Also, instead of being upset with her because she "won't give it up" be proud of her because she isn't. Too many young girls "give it up" because they are too immature and don't have the confidence and self-esteem to say "no."
if u want to be the d*ck that did it behind his gf's back then go ahead... Just respect your girlfriend and wait!
Don't pressure her or she will end it with you. Girls think sex is a much bigger deal than boys do and you need to respect that.
.......................you'll die if you don't have sex this year?
I call BS on this one.
your girlfriend sounds like a good girl, why would u want to get it off some easy chick?, just wait and youll get it when shes ready, dont cheat on the poor girl, xxxxxxxxxx
You will not die if you don't have sex this year!!!
If you really like your girlfriend then wait - its not worth it. Your first time should be special. Sex isn't that great anyway (at least not when you first start)
cutie you are the best and dont pay attention to your friends dont loss you girl just for sex is not worth it. love is better than sex belive me iam 20 and i have had sex a lot of times whit diferent guys but since i meet my boyfriend even if we dont have sex for months cuz he is in another state i dont cheat on him and wait till he comes again. love is first remember that.
tell her how you feel > then explain your situation that you must must do it but then you don't wanna let her go> perhaps she'll give you a weekend free pass..........WAITE don't listen to me
if your friends jumped off a cliff would you follow?? Respect your gf and when the time is right for her. And why will you die?? do you have a time bomb straped to your manhood??
lol ya mates probs brag but have you got evidence ...
my mates were the same till i waited for my gf lol and i found out i was the 1st one to do it lol,
but if ya love ya gf then why should sex bother you, its not what its hyped up to be ... lol cept the std's if ya want them sleeping with random girls at partys
becareful for vomiting girls lol their kisses are deadly lol
but i would say stay with ya gf and when the times right she will do it just be extra nice to her and drop the subject all together and she will come around ...
Wow. Sex in not worth that. Believe me.
Your first time? Its gonna be awkward- maybe painful, and embarrassing. And do you really wanna go through that with someone who will laugh at you later, or someone who will love you anyways?
Yeah this is pretty low of you to ask. I'd actually ask for the contact information for your girlfriend so that I can personally warn her that she doesn't deserve you for thinking this way. Your putting 'sex' on the top of your list!
I can promise you, if you throw away this relationship for just sex, you will always be 'that guy' that every girl will brand as 'undate-able because he's a lowlife cheat'
Be a man for once.
If you are investing too much in this relationship and getting nothing in return you might try to move on. you are young unless you plan to be with only girl this is a waste of your time. Once you move on, you will see that sex is not everything but it is a real part of being in a relationship.
Well....what kind of man do you want to be when you grow up....a cheat or someone a woman can trust. If you are going to have protected sex then break up with your girlfriend or wait it out. It's the best with someone that you love. Actually, you need about a year with a yogy master if you want to be good at sex and maybe by then your girlfriend will be ready.
I love that line "If I don't lose it this year I will die." It reminds me of this time my friend got really drunk, walked up to a girl and told her he had boneritis and the only cure was a BJ. He got a $6 drink thrown on him, a slap to the face and the cold shoulder from every woman in the bar for the rest of the night.
Yeah, there's three things to consider here: A) You're young and you're probably not going to marry this girl you're with. B) Most of your friends are lying, they haven't done squat. It's one of those things you figure out when you're older. C) Those "sex opportunities" you had at parties? That was 20% girls paying attention to you and 80% imagining that attention meant they wanted to jump on you.
We are the same dude! Im 20 right now!
Its good! But it would be much better if you will do it with the girl that you love! Especially if she is a "Virgin". Now break that Hymen dude! one more thing...dont ask about doing it! just start kissing her! wait for the chance! then grab it! wahahahaha!
go to party..make ur girlfriend drunk..have sex with her
ur girlfrnd seems to b a gud one so dont pressurised her and if u want sex badly then watch porn sites or better if u **** someone who wants sex from u
anticipation never killed anybody mate!! just hold on to your girl if you love her the way you say you do. you survived waiting so many years. don;t die now pleaaaaaase
Go on what you feels right, I think your feeling with your girlfriend is only a temporary just like what we call a puppy love. Remember so many married people get divorced after several years of relationship, how much more you with your girlfriend....you're too young. It's only just a fantasy to say that you die if you lose her. The time is always changing you're only a freshman.
If you respect her, wait! Sex is not about self-gratification, it's mutual satisfaction. Don't give in to peer pressure. Everyone at your age has not done it!
Listen to your heart. Not to your head or the head under. :D
okay listen...
being that most HS relationships don't last more than 8 months after graduation, you're wasting memorable opportunities and great conversation pieces that you will regret later in life.
If she is a practicing nun, respect that...but dump her and get your groove on cuz life is not gonna wait for you like you are wating for her.
Other choice, propose to her (assuming you want her that bad), and get engaged and then she'll give it up. Problem solved! (my accountant will be in touch for payment)
Good Luck.
A few options dear:
Continue to masturbate and hope that the girl you want will agree to have sex with you one day.
Continue to masturbate and find a sex buddy. Someone with whom you can have great sex but no romantic attachment.
Continue to masturbate and find another girlfriend.