Waking Someone Up?!


Question: My boyfriend is VERY hard to wake up in the morning. I'll spend 20 minutes trying to sweetly wake him and then I start shaking him and raising my voice (I have to go to work!) He wakes up, only remembering the yelling and gets very mad at me and ruins my day or at least my morning. He gets so angry and storms about the house yelling about everything. Is there any way to wake him up without making him angry? I think I've tried everything short of just letting him lay there all day and wake himself up.


Answers: My boyfriend is VERY hard to wake up in the morning. I'll spend 20 minutes trying to sweetly wake him and then I start shaking him and raising my voice (I have to go to work!) He wakes up, only remembering the yelling and gets very mad at me and ruins my day or at least my morning. He gets so angry and storms about the house yelling about everything. Is there any way to wake him up without making him angry? I think I've tried everything short of just letting him lay there all day and wake himself up.

Put a cherry bomb up his @ss and run! He needs to grow up!

give him a nice back rub

cold water on the face, then run

Do it in a sexy way!

Start trying to wake him up earlier, by getting on top of him and telling him you want something before you go to work. He will wakeup.

My girlfriend does the same to me and my response has always been "When I have had enough sleep, I will wake myself up! I am a grown man and do not need your help!" Let the poor man sleep!

next tiem he does that i would just let him stay in bed ,if he is late for work maybe he will start getting himself up.he might get mad but he will get over it.

let him lie there all day and wake himself up.

Let him sleep. Its his own problem.

Either leave him to sleep in and make it his responsibility to wake up himself, or throw a very large ice cold jug of water over him and sweetly say, baby time to get up, have a nice day, then go on your merry way to work....

Kick him out the night before- then you dont have to worry about it.

sit on his face...mite get some action aswell...

or get another man to tea bag him

throw him with eggs while he is still asleep

Get an alarm clock honey!! Why ruin your day trying to be sweet when it obviously doesn't work...let the blaring alarm clock wake him up!

Have him set an alarm clock, or have him be in charge of waking himself up. What are the consequences of him not waking up? You should let him wake himself up for a while and see what happens unless the consequences would be bad.

Good luck,
Dana (Marriage and Family Therapy M.S.)

Try waking him up for a little nookey, and see how that goes....If you know what I mean

Use the old and true, put his finger in warm water or pour warm water on his hand. He will pee himself and wake up.

Let him sleep and when he asks why you didn't wake him, just tell him you didn't want to upset him and he didn't respond to you nicely waking him. Make him appreciate you.Either that or get him one of those loud wind up clocks with the bells on top, and set it for him and put it where he must get out of bed to be able to turn it off.

Make the bum get a job. If he's too lazy to get up then leave without waking him. Maybe he should get his priorities straight if he's choosing to sleep in or maybe he should see a doctor if he can't get up.

For your relationship's sake, buy the guy an alarm clock. If he doesn't hear it and is late for work, at least it will be his fault.

I go through the EXACT same thing EVERY freakin day. I got to the point where sweet taking wasnt working, shaking wasnt working then I would yell he would wake up pissed off and ranting about everthing and eventually I was like screw it wake ur damn self up from now on! I was tired of him hurting my feelings and making me feel like I was in the wrong. So he sets the clock and gets himself up. Its much better this way. Then if hes late its his fault

if he told u to wake him up...and has such a behavior when u do then talk to him and let him know that u don't like his attitude..if he didn't told u to wake him up, let him sleep until he wakes himself up...
u've got really "huge" patience...i think that if i was in your place i would f*** him off...
sorry for the word...

Being nice doesn't work. My son has a sleep-in problem. I threw cold water on him once. After that all I had to say was "I'm getting water" and turning on the cold water faucet in the bathroom. He acquired a conditioned response and always got up immediately. Now he's in his 30's, and when he visits it still works.

You'll have to develop your own solutions, something distasteful that you can get away with.

Best of luck!

Why ruin your day? Let him get up himself! It's time "mommy"
stops waking him up in the morning!

Additional:
Well, like, wow! You totally didn't say that! Duh!!

just give him a nice penis suck then he will wake up so happy
try it

Oh, you love him.
Give him a kiss long.

get on him and start kissing him. and be like i want sex before i have to go to work.....he will definitely wake up

He's a bog boy. Get him an alarm clock and let him get himself up. If he is late for a few things he may learn to get himself up.

My mum had the same problem waking me up....she just used to leave for work and I used to get late for school.....tht set me straight....tough love works sometimes I suppose :)





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