What is "average" sex drive for a healthy guy in his early/mid twentie!
Question: my husband has almost NO sex drive! He used to have a trace of one but now its almost NOTHING. I think that he used to have a little bit because he used to drink a lot...and now he stopped a little over a year ago. I dont know if I have an above average sex drive or what...but it's driving me CRAZY. What if anything can be done to boost his sex drive? Will exercising help to boost his testosterone therefore boosting sexdrive? because something's gotta give.
Answers: my husband has almost NO sex drive! He used to have a trace of one but now its almost NOTHING. I think that he used to have a little bit because he used to drink a lot...and now he stopped a little over a year ago. I dont know if I have an above average sex drive or what...but it's driving me CRAZY. What if anything can be done to boost his sex drive? Will exercising help to boost his testosterone therefore boosting sexdrive? because something's gotta give.
He might be stressed out,or maybe he has a medical problem,diabetes sometimes does this,are you getting along,and so on,yes there is natural herbs in the vitamin sections,or health stores,check into it,if not be patient.
I don't know about average, but when I was that age (and even now) I wanted to have sex every day (multiple times a day if I could get it).
several times a week for a guy in a committed relationship is probably about normal/average....
But men, like women, vary. It may not be a low testosterone thing.
Think this through -- has he had difficulty getting or maintaining an erection? In other words, have you tried to have sex and he's just "not been in the mood" or it just wouldn't budge.... or once up, did he sometimes "just lose it" without climax? If so, he may have e.d. and should see a doctor. It might be a physical problem. It might be a mental problem. Nobody knows until he sees a doctor.
Is it possibly because he disappoints you in bed by not staying up long enough? I.e. - he can get it up, but he finishes too fast for you. Perhaps that is getting him anxious, and he doesn't want to feel that way so he avoids sex. This can create a repeating cycle where he's anxious and it causes dysfunction, and then the dysfunction causes more anxiety.
Is it possible he isn't sexually attracted to women? I.e. have you ever known anyone to suspect he was gay? What's he look at on the internet? Nothing? Women? Normal Sex? Something strange? Check it out - see if he's looking at guys. Maybe he's in the closet.
Is he overweight? Out of shape? High blood pressure? Diabetes? Other health problems.
This is a touchy subject for guys, so your best bet is to be understanding and CONFIDENTIAL. Do NOT tell your girlfriends. Do NOT tell your mother. If he finds out you've been squawking about it, he will be angry, embarrassed and humiliated. Talk to him about this, and always tell him that you love him and that you want him and that you're attracted to him.
Evaluate if he really loves you. You mayb ask him to use viagra or cilialis for assistance
absolutely wild, it is all over the place :)
acholhol gets converted to estrogen by the liver which effectively chemically castrates a heavy drinker.If he did drink too heavily for years he may have destroyed his testicles already...examine his testicles if they are less than 4 cm in size he has probably already damaged them beyond repair.