Should this be happening at his age (erection)?!?!?!


Question: My boyfriend is 18. I understand why he'd get erections when we're kissing (im still a vigin) but he also gets random erections. Shouldn't he have grown out of it? I mean, i thought it was only a thing that happened in puberty and shouldn't he have stopped puberty by now? If not; what age do guys stop puberty? And are these random erections normal?

Charl, 14, UK


Answers: My boyfriend is 18. I understand why he'd get erections when we're kissing (im still a vigin) but he also gets random erections. Shouldn't he have grown out of it? I mean, i thought it was only a thing that happened in puberty and shouldn't he have stopped puberty by now? If not; what age do guys stop puberty? And are these random erections normal?

Charl, 14, UK

Puberty is usually up to 18 so he might still be going through it. But I don't think you can put an age limit on random erections! Some men wake up with them even if they haven't had a saucy dream! And it's not so wrong for an 18 yr old to be going out with a 14 yr old - if you're both consenting (and anyway you said you were a virgin) then you don't need to worry (it may be against the law for you to have sex but your boyfriend wouldn't get arrested for it!)

honey, healthy men have this always, wait until you grow up to get involved with a male organ, it only spells trouble! Report It


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  • it wont stop happening for many years

    charl,are u a boy?
    well he maybe a virgin too but he never told u.
    also,a 18 year old should not date someone ur age

    Of course they are normal! If you are dead lucky, he'll get them always! ;-)

    your boyfriend is 18 and you are 14!!!! a bit old for you isn't he!!!! you won't be virgin for that long with someone 4 years older than you and having loads of random erections!!!!

    they are normal,and can go on though out his life though there more controllable as he ages

    it depends from people to people.....theres nothing wrong with him.....hell grow out of it by the time hes 20-21 or something i guess!

    if hes having random erections around u, then he likes u! a lot.......
    now u know ur daddy's rite when he says all the boys want u for is sex! the penis never lies!!!!!

    no honey...
    erections can happen for all sorts of reasons... many of them sexual to some extent...
    and boys definately do NOT 'grow out of them'
    he's a boy not a puppy that you can train!

    14-18 is a big age gap, be carefull! (although it sure sounds like you can handle it)

    At your age you should be going out with a boy your own age.

    contrary to what you may think..... butttt 14 and 18 are not grown up. hes still a kid. he will learn to control himself. or maybe its the fact that your jail bate that gets him going? hmmm watch out.

    yes its natural nothing to do with puberty
    it just means he is attracted to you

    yes

    We get woodies all the time, sometimes it's cold sometimes the mind wonders....It's a physical or mental thing.
    When it happens we have to learn to get our mind or body under control and not let the mind or body control us........mind control baby.

    Too old for you sex and boys should be the farthest thought from someone your age. I think you need to get your head in the books and leave your hands away from the boys.

    Ya it can still happen
    and it will for a while
    oh, and the body doesnt stop growing until about 21 years of age

    yes they're normal

    Pupery occurs at different stages during different times of a males life. With that said, random erections is still normal for an 18 year old. He might have gone through puberty a little late, therefore delaying the end of random erections. This is not a bad thing at all, it just makes him a late bloomer. Keep in mind random erections at age 30 is not gonna do anything harmful. Its just an erection, no biggy. Good luck

    a guy cant really control his erection even at his age, besides he probably thinks hes gonna get some

    it surely starts in tha 20s

    yes that is perfectley normal.

    your boyfriend is a paedophile.

    There is something paedophilic going on here.





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