Embarassing question...?!


Question: I am 16 and was "babysitting" my 10 yr old cousin, when i went to get him ready for bed i took him to the toilet and got him to brush his teeth, while he was doin that i took a leak at the toilet next to it, well anyway i got to the end and i got some toilet paper pulled my foreskin back to wipe the pee off the helmet and stuff, and my cousin was like "wow how do you do that, does it hurt" and stuff, and i jus showed him like how ipull my skin back and my helmet and said he can do that too if he wants (hes uncircumcised too) not really thinkin at the time that hes only 10... was i wrong to do that, and do u think when he's older he'll remember it?


Answers: I am 16 and was "babysitting" my 10 yr old cousin, when i went to get him ready for bed i took him to the toilet and got him to brush his teeth, while he was doin that i took a leak at the toilet next to it, well anyway i got to the end and i got some toilet paper pulled my foreskin back to wipe the pee off the helmet and stuff, and my cousin was like "wow how do you do that, does it hurt" and stuff, and i jus showed him like how ipull my skin back and my helmet and said he can do that too if he wants (hes uncircumcised too) not really thinkin at the time that hes only 10... was i wrong to do that, and do u think when he's older he'll remember it?

Dude, don't listen to all those jerks! I can't believe how uptight and homo phobic a lot of ppl on here are. Your cuz learned how to keep his dick cleaner cause he he saw you skin yours back. I bet he did his too, right? He wasnt shy or embarassed cause it's no big deal! Kinda like learning to tie shoes or use deodrant. I'm uncut too. I never pulled my skin back when I peed until I saw a jr. counselor at day camp do it when we were hiking. I was 8 he was probaly 16. then in the shower I asked him to show me how. I got hard LOL. ASfter that all summer we were close and I asked him tons of stuff, i felt comfortable and safe with Mike. My dicks been cleaner and nicer smelling ever sice and I'm always gonna love him and remember him. Your cuz needs you to be his friend

WOW.

Completely wrong! You as a baby sitter have no right to be touching an underage child. This child could claim molestation charges. You had no right to even be using the bathroom with him present! You could be in serious trouble. If he didn't know how to do it which I doubt, unless he wears a diaper, you could have informed his father or mother.

Thats touchy, I would let your father/mother know ahead of time in case he mentions it to his parents. Even though it wasnt in a "dirty" manner, his parents still might freak.

yeah i think he'd remember that....
yeah dont show little kids your private either.. that just wouldnt sound good...

haha
he will remeber
just et something against him
and then use that if he tells.

your a pedo

(I didn't know Michael Jackson comes here to Yahoo! Answers)

You were discussing how to pull your foreskin back with a ten year old???
Get help.

totally retarded

ya he will def. remember that. I think his parents should have shown him how to do that, he's 10 for crying out loud. I don't think you were wrong for doing that, he needed to learn someday

he might have mental issues when he's older!!! :(

If it was done in a normal manner without any weird overtones I don't think it was wrong.
You probably think more about it than he does, children are always asking about things they don't know, it's part of growing up.

honestly no... because you two have somethign in common when he gets older hell remember hes not the only one out there with an uncircumcised member... you two are boys and its harmless...(unless taken further which i doubt)... hes at the age where they need to learn about these tyes of things ne ways.. esp hygene in this scenerio... obv no one told him h needed to do these things... you helped him out...lol

Technically you're teaching him to be more hygenic with himself, so no that's not wrong. As long as it wasn't sexual, everybody else is being oversensitive about the issue.

Honestly I can't think of anything I learned specificly at ten, so he may not even remember, even if he starts cleaning himself the way you did or do what you showed him.

Worst case scenario he becomes more hygenic and avoids the difficulty of a foreskin that won't pull back when he's older because he never stretched it when he was young.

That is indeed embarassing, and (sorry) very wrong, you might wanna consider telling his parents, even though that will be even more embarassing, but it would be better if they heard it from you than their 10 year old son...and i'm sorry 2 say he will probably remember that.

I can't believe some of these answers that insinuate that you are a pedophile. Idiots!

Anyway, it sounds to me like it was a totally innocent situation. I would let his parents know that the situation took place and tell them that you hope it doesn't bother them. If my younger cousins were babysitting my son and that situation took place I would not be upset at all.

1. ignore everyone else whos saying ur a pedo and crap becuz u didnt touch him and on top of it hes your family

2. nothing wrong with it he just learned to pull his foreskin back

I don't think it was wrong.. I have a little brother and he always just barges in the bathroom and See's me pee. I think it was good you showed him how to clean himself. I would not worry about it

you must be gay

that was kinda wrong i mean heres a ten year old stairing at your 16 year old penis, what do you think

You are setting in a DANGEROUS situation by doing that ! !
A10 y/o won't forget that.
Something similar happened to a friends 9 y/o son,except things kept happening to him for a long time until he told...know what I mean ?

DON'T GO THERE ! !

You did nothing wrong. If anything you did him a favor.
You showed him a better hygene. If you didnt touch him then
he will not have any bad memory of the experience!





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