Still a virgin?!
Question: Men: honest answers please! I am almost twenty years old and have never had sex but there was time when i wanted to lose my virginity. I picked someone that i thought i could trust and who wouldn't leave me afterwards. We started to fool around when i got very scared and backed out. There was no penetration but he did lick me "down there". I have been stressing over this mainly because he did end up leaving anyways. Did i lose my virginity to him? Why or why not? I don't want to live with the fact of losing my virginity to the wrong guy. Please help i have become severly depressed over this issue!
Answers: Men: honest answers please! I am almost twenty years old and have never had sex but there was time when i wanted to lose my virginity. I picked someone that i thought i could trust and who wouldn't leave me afterwards. We started to fool around when i got very scared and backed out. There was no penetration but he did lick me "down there". I have been stressing over this mainly because he did end up leaving anyways. Did i lose my virginity to him? Why or why not? I don't want to live with the fact of losing my virginity to the wrong guy. Please help i have become severly depressed over this issue!
I guess it would be safe to assume you are a female.
Now why in the world would you want a "relationship" with no guarantees? First you have saved yourself to an age where the great "american" society says most young people are already "used" merchandise. You have saved yourself from social diseases and pregnancy and now you feel your are ready for that drama?? Why?? Why not (if you have a relationship with Jesus: Romans 10:9 ) make your request to God that you want a spouse (their is no fornification going on if you want to be honorable before God) and he will send you your mate. That way the "man" (not boy) would do the manly thing for you. Which is not fertilize you until he has "provided" a house for you both to live in, has a j o b to provide for you and any future children you have and most importantly of all, announced before God and man that you are his wife (by marrying you!) If you are not waiting to have intercouse under those circumstances then you are only wanting a discount special (trouble).
You have waited this long for the best, you can hold out a little longer for ther real thing.
hun, you dont lose your virginity by sum1 licking you....
technically, there should be penis in vagina penetration to no longer qualify as a virgin
you just had oral sex...and according to the ex president, thats not real sex
no u don't!~
Physically you're still a virgin if there were no penetration.
no penetration
no loss of virginity
as soon as "it" crosses the gates that when u lose it
Dont worry about it. There is nothing wrong with being scared about sexual intercourse.
There is nothing wrong with being a twenty year old virgin. If you worried about guys being down there play with yourself down there so that you are comfortable with down there.
Maybe even get a sexual toy to try some pentration yourself.
at first im thinking that you're gay... lame..
well, its normal if you still a virgin..
hey, some man are still virgin even they are already 20
and so are women... its nothing wrong to be virgin..
who care if you still virgin???
get the hell of what people say...
just stand your principle..
if you wanna be a virgin, then be it...