How can i ask him how big he is?!?!?!?!
Question: Right, i'm 14 and have a boyfriend who is 18. I dont need a lecture about the age difference (please dont say anything about it...) He say's he wont sleep with me until i am ready (and 16 or over obviously) and i know that my first time will be with him becuase i love him with all my heart. Ok so; if it's my first time i'm kind of worried if he's like REALLY big (you know like his measurments) it would hurt becuase im not used to it. Should i ask him how big he is before we sleep together? if i should ask him; how would i go about it? Would any guys be uncomfortable talking about it to their girlfriends?
(remeber; no lectures about the age difference, that he just wants sex, and im not going to say im ready until its atleast legal...)
Answers: Right, i'm 14 and have a boyfriend who is 18. I dont need a lecture about the age difference (please dont say anything about it...) He say's he wont sleep with me until i am ready (and 16 or over obviously) and i know that my first time will be with him becuase i love him with all my heart. Ok so; if it's my first time i'm kind of worried if he's like REALLY big (you know like his measurments) it would hurt becuase im not used to it. Should i ask him how big he is before we sleep together? if i should ask him; how would i go about it? Would any guys be uncomfortable talking about it to their girlfriends?
(remeber; no lectures about the age difference, that he just wants sex, and im not going to say im ready until its atleast legal...)
Firstly I must applaud the morals of your boyfriend. To reassure you the vagina will stretch to accommodate the male organ, I would suspect he is also the sort of excellent chap who will treat you gently, so it should be fine!
Just be like How big are you? guys don't really care
Just ask him, unless you've been dating him for one week which is not the fact.
Don't even think about it. It doesn't matter what size it is. It all depends on how he uses it. Trust me, it won't matter what size it is. If he makes sure you are ready before having sex everything will be fine. It might be a bit uncomfortable the first time but once you get used to it it will be fine. Don't rush into anything.
good choice hunn...
if he is actually "BIGGER" then you think. , if I were you..I would start mastrubating... atleast buy some sex toys and stuff... make sure u use protection too!! and yes, wait a while.
Just ask, he'll either tell you normally, or laugh and tell you, either way I doubt he'll be embarrased.
Just ask, girl, I don't think he'll mind.
size doesn't matter - enjoy!
Hey, haha no worries I'm 16 and I have a boyfriend that is 19.
It's actually a good thing that you guys know what you guys are doing. & for most of the time, guys don't really care. I'm pretty sure most guys actually *ahem* like it. But yeah, it's not a big deal, besides he's your boyfriend you gotta be comfortable to ask him things, especially if it's just between the two of you.
DONT ask him.
first of all your going to give him a complex (men are obsessed with penis size)
second, you could give him the impression you are ready to sleep with him.
third, when you are ready to become sexually involved, you wont need to ask, because there is going to be plenty of time to enjoy touching before you have intercourse. So you will find out in good time.
You can just ask him, he won't mind, he might like the question, most guys shouldn't and won't mind..its sorta a turn on.
And he's probably only 6-7 inches, and thats not that large, you can fit bigger in (sorry, but its true)
Save yourself for a husband.
just ask him he wont mind, if he's big he'll be pleased to tell you, if he's small he'll lie anyway
if he looks like he weighs over 250 pounds he's a fat azz,don't let him fall on u....lol
guys get turned on if u ask....well at east i do....just ask
i think you are a very smart gul as you already know that it will hurt you if the size is big but frankly telling you that a normal size is 5 inch and all the other things about having 13inch and all is a big joke so dont worry to ask the size cause a proper oral sex gives you enough fluid to take in the penis and as you said no lectures beware of unwanted pregnancies enjoy have a nice time
just be like, yo dawg, how big's yo ****.
and then he'll most likely whip it out and shove it into your mouth.
at least thats what i would do.
yeah u kan ask him how big he is but think..ih he says that he has a very biG ***** what will u do?? u'll sleep togheter too..
Well at least you both sound sensible enough to wait until it is legal , so that is a good start
The thing is you could ask him outright about the size of mens equipment and he might not tell the truth anyway
I suggest you just continue to get to know each other over the next couple of years and at some stage you will indeed find out what you want to know .
I think that as you co closer and more confident with each other , then opportunities to ask questions that are in the back of your mind will happen naturally , till then just be patient .
As this is mens health I will take it that you are male. Only one bit of advice for you think very carefully before you get into anything heavy as this guy is older I take it he is experienced in gay relationships and you won't be his first. Just make sure when the time is right he wears a condom ALWAYS. And remember that sexual intercourse under age is a criminal offence.
u wont wait and your boyfriend will be classed as a pedo break up now
i dont think he could probably resist the temptation for another 2 years, it might hurt when he pops ur cherry(breaks your hymen) its inside the vaginal area and its like a patch blocking the whole, but after that it shouldnt be bad
when ur ready you should do the stuff before sleeping together! ull have an idea!
make sure u are ready and dont rush! u should be the one who says when as u are younger and will be ur first time!
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