What would you find satifying?!
Question: Alright, so I just found out I don't turn my boyfriend on as much as he would like to but he still loves me. What would you suggest I should do while we "go." He gives me the ''orgasms" but what can I do to let him feel "good."
Abstinence though.
Answers: Alright, so I just found out I don't turn my boyfriend on as much as he would like to but he still loves me. What would you suggest I should do while we "go." He gives me the ''orgasms" but what can I do to let him feel "good."
Abstinence though.
You don't mention how old you are, but that might be an important factor. Also, when you add Abstinence to the picture, I hope that what you mean is within that concept.
However, we all have a different definition of abstinence when we are in a sexually "charged" or sexual relationship. Total abstinence would mean no sex. Since you state that he gives you orgasms, I assume you are going by some different definition of "not all the way" or no intercourse.
Then, I would say that if you are manually or orally stimulating your boyfriend, that you can tell when he is excited if you are in tune to his expressions, noises, etc. Also, ask him what feels good while you are doing it. As a male, I can assure you that we will let you know!
If he (and you) are as young as I think you are, then I doubt that you talk about sexual activities or practices too much at a conversational level, but more when you are getting excited together. If that's not the case, when the two of you are alone but not in the heat of the moment, ask him. Try to discuss it on the level that you want to increase his enjoyment because you care about him.
more foreplay always is a plus and helps!
try different positions, role playing,watch porn together, and enhancements (oils, toys, etc...)
ASK HIM. this doesn't sound like an abstinence question, though.
He told you that you don't turn him on as much as he would like???? Kick that insensitive jerk to the curb!
Dump him if he is not passionate about you. Do not "settle" just because he is...because eventually he will find someone who he can love and "do it for him" and you will be playing left out....
you shouldn't be doin anything sexual unless your married and from what you say your not married.
just being with you should be enough for him
Try longer foreplay or try role playing like doctor or something. You can also try oral sex and see if that works.
oral sex is always good, seriously. Also be willing to experiment with each other and try things you have never done before. Talk to him about your fantasies and his. Don't be afraid to be honest, sometimes your partner likes to see a darker dirtier side to spice things up a little. Just be open minded explore each other and find out what works for both of you.
Ask him.... and be open.
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