Sex question for the guys...?!
Question: This one is just a general inquiry because I have no experience in this area. When you are having sex with either a virgin, or someone unexperienced and she experiences pain during intercourse, do you feel badly for her? Do you get upset that you can't finish, or do you want it to feel good for her too.
I'm just wondering how guys feel about this because I see lots of questions from girls experiencing pain, but only a few guys. And as I said above, I don't have any experience with this.
Answers: This one is just a general inquiry because I have no experience in this area. When you are having sex with either a virgin, or someone unexperienced and she experiences pain during intercourse, do you feel badly for her? Do you get upset that you can't finish, or do you want it to feel good for her too.
I'm just wondering how guys feel about this because I see lots of questions from girls experiencing pain, but only a few guys. And as I said above, I don't have any experience with this.
Jody
Of course I feel bad, if she's a virgin then of course there is going to be some pain I just get her as wet and excited as I can. If she isn't then I stop, use more foreplay and fingers to get her ready and gently and slowly try again. Sex is about 2 people getting pleasure, maybe I'm just to big for her. I'm not gonna get mad, it's not like she is doing it on purpose. I can always please her with my mouth and there are other ways she can take care of me. As you can see most young boys and some men are selfish and only care about getting their pleasure. Avoid them.
no i dont feel bad, i thikn its hot haha, its just cause she is to tight and i go slow until she gets used to it, and then.. you know.. bangbangbangbang
I feel bad. If its not good for her then its not good for me.
I'm a very sensitive guy and would always put the woman's pleasure and needs before mine.
The way I figure is, if I put her pleasure first she'll appreciate that and desire to be with me more. It's a win-win for me.
If she felt pain I would definitely stop and figure out what's wrong.
there is usually NOT enough foreplay, the reason for the pain.
another to eleviate is to use lubricated condoms, it will make it more comfortable for the woman.
I dont feel bad but I do go extra slow & careful.
yea, they cry for like a week.
If that happens don't forget you can use your mouth and especially your hand to finish him off, and also, masturbating helps a lot in preparing yourself for sex, so you might want to become a pro at that first.
There are virgins left? Holy Crap!
If it hurt I would stop............unless it was one of my ex's then all bets are off.........
Sometimes it hurts. That pepper spray is a mutha.......
i feel bad for her, and try to make it less painful.
WTF IS WRONG WITH THE FIRST DUDE.....I'd feel terrible..I'm a vrigin so I suppose if the girl's a virgn too and she says she experienced pain..I'd feel terrible about myself!!!...U DONT PUT PEOPLE IN PAIN...ESPECIALLY THE ONES WHO ARE DOING IT FOR UR PLEASURE(and theirs,hopefully!)...
If both are virgins, they male will generally only care about his own pleasure and bragging rights and MAYBE try to impress the girl
if its not good for her, then it is no fun. Especially if she is uncomfortable or in pain--there is no way to enjoy it from there.
J
My girl has this problem all the time.
she's just very small down there and I on the other hand; am not.
It takes a little bit; but I love watching her face. She might cringe for a second or two; but when you're gentle enough and slide in nice and easy; that little pain is forgotten in an instant.