Serious erection question.?!
Question: I am 20 years old and have been having sex for 3 years. My last girlfriend I dated for close to 2 years and we had sex daily, sometimes twice a day. I was always able to get an erection just thinking about it, and it would be 100% fully hard and ready to go. I moved about 6 months ago and havent had sex since then until recently. I met a girl and we feel extremely comfortable around eachother and after hanging out a few times ended up having sex. I didnt get fully hard right around despite being extremely turned on, but went on anyways. It lasted about 10 minutes before I had to take my condom off, and then a few minutes later I just had to stop. I couldnt stay hard. Then we went to have sex again another day and the same problem happened. I blamed it on us laying around together all day and me having a semi-erection for most of the day, but I dont know if thats really the problem. Damn I am out of room and still have more that needs to be written
Answers: I am 20 years old and have been having sex for 3 years. My last girlfriend I dated for close to 2 years and we had sex daily, sometimes twice a day. I was always able to get an erection just thinking about it, and it would be 100% fully hard and ready to go. I moved about 6 months ago and havent had sex since then until recently. I met a girl and we feel extremely comfortable around eachother and after hanging out a few times ended up having sex. I didnt get fully hard right around despite being extremely turned on, but went on anyways. It lasted about 10 minutes before I had to take my condom off, and then a few minutes later I just had to stop. I couldnt stay hard. Then we went to have sex again another day and the same problem happened. I blamed it on us laying around together all day and me having a semi-erection for most of the day, but I dont know if thats really the problem. Damn I am out of room and still have more that needs to be written
buddy, you are absolutely fine. you just have something called performance anxiety. you are under pressure to perform and the moment that your think that you are not doing your best, will actually be counter-productive to you. this temporary impotence will last only as long as you are too hard on yourself. just relax, take things easy and you'll see how wonderfully you'll be able to satisfy the both of yourselves. i have seen and counseled many patients like yourself. taking the tablets will solve your problems for one act of sex only and they will give you a metal block - that you need tablets to perform. don't do that - it will mar your sex life. just take it easy. enjoy your foreplay and let it happen naturally.
Maybe you have some issues with your old girlfriend. Do you feel guilty about somthing?
well try thinking about your new girl like you did with you old and see if that works,
You don't have to go to the doctors for some erections pills, there are a couple over the counter ones.
it may not be all your fault . maybe your old girl was sexier! lol, just playing . i dont suggest pills. make them your last resort. try some role playing or lingerie. or maybe you got a little bit too comfortable with this girl. if none of that works then try pills.
Lots of things can cause ED (erectile disfunction). Have there been any other changes in your life? new medication? Anyways . . . on to the things I do know about. The cost of a doctor visit will probably be between $100 and $200 depending on the doctor. They can vary a LOT. The cost of viagra (or cialis or levitra, both work pretty much the same as viagra) is about $15 a tablet. I know this because I work as a pharmacy technician at a large national drug chain and many of our patients buy these precriptions one tablet at a time. Your doctor will probably write a presciption for about #10 or so (maybe more) but I would start out with just buying one to see if it works for you. The prescription will be good for a year from the day it's written and you can always come back and get more if you don't get the whole quanity at once.
maybe its because you dont have romantic feelings for her like love, also it could be that its just a lust thing so you feel guilty about doing it for some reason!
also you could have started taking some kind of medication that could give you this problem in the time when you werent having sex and just did not notice it till you started having sex.
maybe you have a medical conditon.
and yes you can get viagra samples from your dr, or a scrip that you can get filled the next day and viagra is expensive.
also you might have a testorone problem that just came to the surface, if this continues you should talk to a dr about it!
maybe you can try seeking the doctor advise on your erection problem or you can try checking how long your erection can last with and without the masturbation method that you try. It could be something that lead you to this temporary erectile problem.Could it be you over anxious over it that caused this problem?try to cheer up and maybe a long sexual foreplay will help you as a starting for your intimacy.
you prbably are thinking about your old gf more than you are the new one. you miss you old gf but you dont realize it. try talking to the old gf and see if you feel anything with her still. or you could try forgeting bout her completely and trying thinking bout the gf more than the old one.