Men: is this bad ?!
Question: my man loves oral more then sex. its starting to worry me.
can this ruin our relationship.
he loves sex only if i go down on him first
last night he insisted on me going down and i kept saying no and we had sex but he didnt seem to be in the mood for it since i didnt go down.
what should i think of this? im not giving him no down time anymore for a while b/c this really depressed me about him loveing oral more and he dont seem to much into sex with out that first
help have you been in a situation like this what ended up happening
Answers: my man loves oral more then sex. its starting to worry me.
can this ruin our relationship.
he loves sex only if i go down on him first
last night he insisted on me going down and i kept saying no and we had sex but he didnt seem to be in the mood for it since i didnt go down.
what should i think of this? im not giving him no down time anymore for a while b/c this really depressed me about him loveing oral more and he dont seem to much into sex with out that first
help have you been in a situation like this what ended up happening
It can only ruin your relationship if you let it. If you know that's what he likes before actually having intercourse, why can't you just do it? What are you trying to prove by not doing it? Are you really that selfish?
no matter what oral for men alwayz feels better...u can have more control with your mouth than with your female...u can make it tighter, use your tongue, more lubrication, less riskier
dump him, he sucks. does he not do anything for you??
hes too up his own **** to realise you need things too. get some got guy who loves being nice to you.
any man like oral but idk about better then a vagina ... hes weird its his fedish some ppl like thinks more then others
* ask him to go down on you - im sure he will oblige - lovely taste (vanillary) then you can both be happy - toss a coin on who goes down on who first - then finish off with proper sex - if he can still do it after you give him a swallow . - everyone's happy!
hell I like it just as much as the next guy. but it's not a requirement for me before sex. fact is I get more enjoyment going down on her. what can I say ? I just love it. maybe I was a lesbian in my previous life.
and maybe he's a closet queen that hasn't come out yet.
Every person gets "turned on" by different things. If you don't enjoy giving oral sex that he shouldn't be forcing you to do it, not that I'm suggesting that he is. It is completely normal for a guy to enjoy one form of sex more than the other (i.e. masturbation more than sex, sex more than oral, or masturbation better than oral).
I've had a situation where a girl that I dated enjoyed oral more than sex. Didn't bother me and I didn't mind. I got it after I gave it.
Remember in any relationship that there has to be a compromise. You boyfriend should be wanting to satisfy you and you should be wanting to satisfy him. If giving oral is not something that you want to do, you should communicate that to him and try to find some alternative. Remember that in this day and age, sexual compatibility is an issue to many couples, but these things can be sorted out by talking. If he's not willing to compromise and cater to your needs, then... you might have more of a problem with the relationship itself.
when your giving him oral bite down on it and he`ll realize your to dangerous
if anyone has to have something to enjoy sex it becomes a fetish. by definition a fetish is something a person has to have to enjoy sex. they are never healthy.
okay, it is fine to enjoy oral, but it should be just one thing, not the whole package. i believe you are right to be concerned. he should be able to enjoy a range of things. if he can't he may have some sort of issue going on there.
any solution begins with talking. you need to voice these concerns just as you have here. hopefully you two can reach and compromise and work this out.
If you love him, do it.
is that all you teenagers talk about?
being serious here he might be gay i'm not trying to offend you but it does happen sometimes 99% of blokes would rather the vagina as its much better great sensation i hope i'm wrong for your sake.
Good Luck.
A good sexual relationship can only happen when there is give and take. Talk to him and tell him that he is not satisfying your needs.