Trouble getting off with oral?!
Question: Im 21 and whenever a girl gives me head, i just cannot seem to get off before she gets tired of "performing". I do not have this problem during sex though. Can anyone offer me any insight?
Answers: Im 21 and whenever a girl gives me head, i just cannot seem to get off before she gets tired of "performing". I do not have this problem during sex though. Can anyone offer me any insight?
Well... many young women are .. there is no way of saying this delicately.... so apologies all round... "no good at it". They are too inexperienced (generally) to know what feels "absolutely mind numbing fantastic" as opposed to "oh that feels good.. so keep going". Frankly, a lot of women dont enjoy it .. and you can sort of tell... which is a turn off, I think.
And I bet you are a deep thruster when having intercourse... you just can't always do that for oral... so you just hang back and sort of don't get "involved" .... right? Well you could always 69... and I think that's a whole lot of fun.
Well, you might try training her up a bit... but remember.. the better she becomes.. the more likely that you will need to learn to share.... lol..
Show her how to do it. Books, videos, articles. They will help.
Good question.
Me to! I think it happens to alot of guys.
You are not alone. I cant get off from a BJ either. Just let her know you appreciate the fact shes being so goodly as to put your penis in her mouth but its just not in your wiring to get off from oral sex. If she starts to argue or get offended then toss her on her back, pull her panties down and show her YOUR skills at oral. I think that should help let her down easy.
It's the same with me, I don't think it's necessarily a problem with the girl, it's just what turns pushes your buttons. This kind of thing really varies with different people, so maybe that's just how you work, there's nothing wrong with it, and you're definitely not alone.