Umm akward question????!
Question: Um so my boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 years.We masturbate together occasionaly(we both are virgins though im 18 and hes 22).We are trying to cut back on the masturbation though, we usually do it about 3-4 times a week.We are down to about 2-3 times a week.But we would like to cut that back to just once a week if at all.Does anyone have any suggestions for accomplishing this?I know its a weird question but i appreciate answers.Thanks much.
Answers: Um so my boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 years.We masturbate together occasionaly(we both are virgins though im 18 and hes 22).We are trying to cut back on the masturbation though, we usually do it about 3-4 times a week.We are down to about 2-3 times a week.But we would like to cut that back to just once a week if at all.Does anyone have any suggestions for accomplishing this?I know its a weird question but i appreciate answers.Thanks much.
you guys are great. I am really proud of you in not having sex. Sex is fun, yea, but today it is really dangerous- diseases, pregnancy etc etc. It is just best to hold out until you marry or are with the person you think you will marry, anywho....
try and keep busy doing fun things, like sports (for fun not serious stuff) go out often bowling, movies, mall. Hang with friends if you can together. Movie nights, pizza parties. Play fun silly games with your man like twister, sorry and silly stuff that kids play but can be really fun too for an adult (no stresses!). Join a food shelter together and help the world. Volunteer places (thsi will help you get into a good college too if you want to do that some day).
The more you avoid private situations where you two are all alone and bored, the less you will be tempted to get sexual.
Best of luck and good job on being safe! You set a good example for other teens!
Avoid the alone-together times with each other and keep you affection to a minimum. Plan one day or evening when you can let loose and catch up.
Why dont you guys just have sex. Its a lot better lol
My question would be why? There's nothing wrong with it. You might be able but I'd bet against him successfully cutting back to once a week.
Find some other common interest that take up your time , swimming , bowling , theatre etc.
However so long as you do it i private there is no real problems in you continuing to masturbate together !!
Try to reserve for special occassions....Like after a romantic dinner or even after a hard-day....If this doesn't help, simply stay near friends or family...That is a definate mood breaker!
make the decision to do what you want to do
its good so now u are not gonna get pregnant but...masturbation is healthy to do.